I have a friend online, I think she's bi-polar, she is usually sweet and kind, but suddenly she becomes very mean and violent she gets very scary. Yesterday She attacked me for no reason, she said I was horrible as her mom, that I'm a lier and I fake everything. I don't know what I did to her. She was yelling and screaming about everyone. I told her to calm down please and she said she did nothing wrong and I need help because I'm crazy. She has done this before A few times, I try to get her to get help, and she says she's not bi-polar, she's not a nut and nothing is wrong with her, but alot is one min she's wanting to die the next she's all happy happy, I have the disorder myself and I know this might be what she has, but my mood swings are alot more mild. She totally goes out of control, she also flood my mailbox with mean smilies. She might even be pregnant, and it scares me for her to have a child, she refuses to get help when she needs it really bad. What should I do? We are from separate countries so I can't do much.
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Dear Kaiya
All you can do is stay by her side with understanding and love ready to give truth when she's ready.
Prayers are POWERFUL!!!
IN TRUE LOVE WE REMEMBER:
XEven though you can't see Him, GOD is there!O
( click on the X and move to the O ) ( then feel who is around you ) steven
All you can do is stay by her side with understanding and love ready to give truth when she's ready.
Prayers are POWERFUL!!!
IN TRUE LOVE WE REMEMBER:
XEven though you can't see Him, GOD is there!O
( click on the X and move to the O ) ( then feel who is around you ) steven
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Kaiya,
You can not help someone who will not admit they want help. You do not deserve to be mistreated as you describe here. Set some boundaries with this person and let them know that they need to stop sending you nasty pm's.
Sometimes we can not help someone no matter how much we want to. They have to want to go and get help.
You can not help someone who will not admit they want help. You do not deserve to be mistreated as you describe here. Set some boundaries with this person and let them know that they need to stop sending you nasty pm's.
Sometimes we can not help someone no matter how much we want to. They have to want to go and get help.
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thenewageriseth
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That's true...but... whoever it is, I wish they would stop. 2 wrongs do not make a right. Whoever it is messing with Kaiya stop being such a brat, regardless of the bi-polar problem if she has one. Kaiya has been through so much with the online abuse thing. Whoever you are...put a sock in it. I don't mean to sound mean or anything...all I'm saying is I am tired of this bs being afflicted on my friend Kaiya here. I really am 
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I don't think they can control it, but you're right I have had alot of abuse in my life. I try to help them it doesn't work oh well. I have had problems with her before with her being mean, then I would tell her the next day what she did she said she don't remember that. I dunno what is wrong with her but I pray she gets help quick.
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hey hun! 
big *warmfuzzy*...
after you have exstended yourself to help someone... if they don't except or understand it, then it's ok to step back and care for yourself. people can become a stumblng block for us while ourselves are trying to grow.
i agree with thornygrace. boundries are nessasary to break the cycles of abuse and or unhealthy relationships. taking a break for example. seeing less of eachother. making a friendship boundry list. but any way... i think you are an incredible sweetheart.
blessings to you!!
big *warmfuzzy*... after you have exstended yourself to help someone... if they don't except or understand it, then it's ok to step back and care for yourself. people can become a stumblng block for us while ourselves are trying to grow.
i agree with thornygrace. boundries are nessasary to break the cycles of abuse and or unhealthy relationships. taking a break for example. seeing less of eachother. making a friendship boundry list. but any way... i think you are an incredible sweetheart.
blessings to you!!
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I choosed to step back, and I'll pray for her, their is not much I can do I hope she gets ok, I really do care for her as a friend.
I hope she gets ok, I really do care for her as a friend.
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