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patrice_kell

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One of my closest friends has started cheating on her husband. Her and her husband have been fighting and growing apart. Please pray for them. I really want her to stop what she is doing. All I can do is pray and hope that she realizes what she is doing is wrong. I love her and don't want to see her in any pain. I wish she could understand that what she is doing will only make things worse for her and her situation. I love her with all my heart and wish her the best;it really hurts me to know that she could do something like this. I pray that the Lord shows her what she is doing is wrong and He leads her in the right direction to have a healthy relationship with her family.

I am not sure if I should tell her how I feel about this. Please someone tell me what they would do in this situation. I am friends with her ,her husband, and her three kids. They are all like family to me.
 
Father in Jesus name fill them with your Glory and lead them down the path you want them to go, may they heed your calling on there life and listen to what you have to say, grab them both and give them both big hugs, I leave this situation in your hands thank you father for doing this
 
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Praying for your friend!

Patrice_kell-If it were me, I think I would try to talk to my friend about what she is doing to her marriage. Is she a Christian? If she is, I would remind her of the vows she took before God to be faithful to her husband. I would also encourage her to seek marital counseling, either with her pastor or with someone else. She has begun something that will now be a very hard thing to heal in her marriage. I would also talk to her about what effect this will have on her children. If mommy doesn't love daddy anymore, how does that effect the kids? I would encourage her to stop the affair right now and fix the problems while their still may be a chance. Right now she is being terribly selfish and only thinking of herself, perhaps she needs to be reminded of her committments and that she is part of a family. And what impact the decisions she is making now have upon that family.

I know this won't be easy, and if you decide to talk with her, I'll say a prayer for you as well! :hug:
 
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