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My Frantic Search for a Job

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It's been over a year since I last worked. It's been almost two years since I had a FT job. My last job was a temporary job working for Kelly Services, a temp agency. I haven't received any assignments from them since.

A few months ago I signed up for the Goodwill program. Goodwill accepts donated items from donors, sells it in their stores, and uses the money to help people who have barriers to employment find and keep jobs. They provide services for people with disabilities, and help people with things like filling out job applications, making a resume and taking an interview. They also help you to keep a job by staying touch with you and your employer for at least 90 days after you get a job. I don't know, maybe it's just me, but despite all that Goodwill does for their clients, it seems they have too many clients and never have enough time to work individually with each of them.

I am stricken with Tourette's Syndrome, Depression, and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I have been seeing different physchiatrists for about 12 years now. I am 23 years old. I am on two medications: Zoloft (for Depression and OCD) and Risperdal (for Tourette's). I take a very small dose of each of these daily. I still live with parents even at age 23. I long for independence, but I don't feel like I'm ready to face the world on my own yet.

I figure the first thing I need to do to solve my problems is to get a job, second thing is to pay off some debts. I figure if I'm in good financial standing then that is a start. But there is a problem. Everyday I wake up in the morning I feel like I have no energy. If I forget to take my medicine, which I often do, it just makes things even worse. I feel like I have no motivation, no will to even do anything. Most days I can't even seem to get out of the house. I hardly ever get return phone calls for filling out job applications, and when I don't I find that I don't even have the will to call them myself. I feel hopeless. Depressed, and my OCD is acting up bad.

Now of course I know what I need to do. I need to schedule an early appointment with my phsychiatrist (which I plan to do tomorrow if I can get myself to do it). I need to tell that physchiatrist how I am feeling and see what she recommends. Then hopefully I can get on the road to recovery and get some meaning in my life.

For now I just need your prayers and your support. And if anyone in Nashville, Tennessee (or if you know someone in Nashville) is in need of a desperate man who is serious about getting and keeping a steady job, let me know about it, especially if it is a Hotel/Restaurant job. :help:

Thanks for your support. :pray: for me. :sigh:

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Feel free to take my job babe ;)
If I were you I would stay with your parents as long as humanly possible since right now you really need a good support structure and mental health is so vital to our existence. I know you crave independence but there will be plenty of time for that. You are still a young one :)
I am praying for you dearheart...all will be well. If you ever need to talk feel free to PM me. I have been there with depression and I know the suffering that is involved. Slavery to the negative feelings :sigh: I have sooooo been there! There was a time I could not even take a shower for days and when I finally did it took incredible amounts of motivation. It was truly horrible. I remember sitting on the floor of my shower crying until the hot water turned cold. Thankfully time heals but it seems to drag at times...
Lots of prayers for you tonight sweetheart!
 
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you must make your meds a priority !! could your parent shelp you remember ? is there a vesid office near you ? can your pysch hook yoou up with a support group ? my sister has had mental problems for a long time that are bio-chem caused and she has managed to get better
the lack of motivation I have no help for.
 
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I have called the doctor's office and set up a new appointment for April 7 at 2:15PM CT. That was the soonest I could get. Though that may not even work out because I am moving away (about 10 miles from here) real soon and will need to get a new doctor in the other county. :sigh:
 
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I did it! I did it! I got me a job! Joy! Joy! Joy! Praise the Lord! :clap: :clap: :clap:

Well, it's at McDonalds, but hey at least it's something. Best thing yet is that its only about 5-6 miles away. Hey, the store manager there even talked to me about doing shift management. I told her I wasn't ready for that yet, but she said I could talk to her about it when I felt ready.

Oh, joy, joy, joy! Thanks for the praying. Thank you very much.

Ok, now just keep praying. Getting the job is one thing, keeping it is a whole nother ball game. :eek:

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