Be not conformed to this world
Romans 12:1-2
A Sermon by DeaconDean
Introduction: Athanasius, early bishop of Alexandria, stoutly opposed the teachings of Arius, who declared that Christ was not the eternal Son of God, but a subordinate being. Hounded through five exiles, he was summoned before emperor Theodosius, who demanded he cease his opposition to Arius. The emperor reproved him asked; Do you not realize that all the world is against you? Athanasius quickly answered; Then I am against all the world.
The story is brief but it shows the need not to be conformed to this world. The Apostle Paul urged the Corinthians to come out, be ye separate. (2 Cor. 6:17) A call to not be conformed to this world. Having said that, you might ask, Why conform in some ways? There are different reasons not to and we will look at a few of these. Let us start by looking at what Gods word says.
Scripture Reading: I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Rom. 12:1-2
Pastors Prayer: Heavenly Father, take this short little message and use to for the building up of your kingdom. And may all glory and honor be yours. For we ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Division 1 Statement: Understanding Conformity
Explanation: Conform means correspond to or be like (a pattern), comply with (a law, rules, or customs), be obedient.
Illustration: Queen Victoria, rebelled as a child, ultimately, good was withheld from her, proved to be too rowdy, and was told about the throne she would inherit someday, she conformed to their expectations.
Argumentation: 1 Sam. 8:5, Israel, seeing other nations said to God, We want a king! We want to be like the other nations! So gave them what they asked for. And what did they get? 1&2 Kings, and 1&2 Chronicles show these results. But what are the rewards for conforming to Gods plans?
Wash you, make you clean; put away the evil of your doings from before mine eyes; cease to do evil; Learn to do well; seek judgment, relieve the oppressed, judge the fatherless, plead for the widow. Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool. If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land: Isa. 1:16-19 (KJV)
Transition: If you shouldnt conform to the world, what about our society? Lets examine:
Division 2 Statement: Conformity in our Society.
Explanation: Today there is tremendous pressure to conform to societies so call standards. But the pressure to conform is exerted and felt mostly by our pre-teens and teenagers.
Illustration: E.M. Griffin in his book The Mindchangers describes an experiment done by Solomon Asch with groups of 12 people. They were brought into a room where four lines of unequal length were displayed. They had to decide which two were the same length and publicly vote for their choice. Person after person (eleven in all) voted for the wrong line-because they had been told ahead of time to vote that way. The one individual in the dark couldnt imagine how in the world these seemingly normal people could all choose the wrong line. When it was his turn to vote, he had to decide, Do I go with what I know my senses are telling me, or do I go with the crowd? The result: one third of those tested caved in to peer pressure and changed their vote to agree with their peers.
Argumentation: People conformed to others back in Elijahs day:
And Elijah came unto all the people, and said, How long halt ye between two opinions? if the LORD be God, follow him: but if Baal, then follow him. And the people answered him not a word. 1 kings 18:21
Jesus prediction of the conformity in the end days:
And they shall say to you, See here; or, see there: go not after them, nor follow them. Lk. 17:23
Peters warning of the ways people will follow:
And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of. 2 Pet. 2:2
Application: Pauls exhortation to the Thessalonians:
See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men. -1 Thes. 5:15
And:
For yourselves know how ye ought to follow us: for we behaved not ourselves disorderly among you;.. Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample unto you to follow us. 2 Thes. 3:7,9
How about Peters exhortation?
For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps: 1 Pet. 2:21
Transition: Well, enough about that, but what about another question this brings up? What could it hurt?
Division 3 Statement: The Danger of Conformity.
Explanation: In spite of what we may think, there is a danger to conformity, its called Compromise!
Illustration: F.B. Meyer said: The place from we can exert the strongest influence for good is not from within, but from without. Lot lost all influence of his life in Sodom; but Abraham from the heights of Mamre, was able to exert a mighty influence on its history.
Argumentation: The remnant that returned from captivity, conformed to the customs and manners of the inhabitants.
Now when these things were done, the princes came to me, saying, The people of Israel, and the priests, and the Levites, have not separated themselves from the people of the lands, doing according to their abominations, even of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Perizzites, the Jebusites, the Ammonites, the Moabites, the Egyptians, and the Amorites. Ezra 9:1
With the results seen in verse 2:
For they have taken of their daughters for themselves, and for their sons: so that the holy seed have mingled themselves with the people of those lands: yea, the hand of the princes and rulers hath been chief in this trespass.
This can also be seen in Christian businessmen who eventually go to meetings where alcohol is served. At first he is ridiculed, then he caves in to pressure. Subsequent conformities become easier and easier.
Application: 1 Thes. 5:22:
Abstain from all appearance of evil.
This can also be seen in Paul, in refusing to eat that which had been offered to idols (1 Cor. 8:13) And in supporting himself. (cf. 1 Cor 9: 7-23) Conformity to this world can separate us from God (cf. 1 Jn. 2:15-17)
1.Succumbing to the lust of the flesh. (immorality)
2.Succumbing to the lust of the eyes. (materialism)
3.Yielding to the pride of life. (arrogance)
Transition: Now do you understand why there is grave danger in conforming to this world? But how do we deal with it?
Division 4 Statement: Be a transformer, not a conformist.
Explanation: You must change the things around you to be what is holy, acceptable (cf. Rom 12:2). If a picture on a wall is hanging crooked, do you bend the wall to fit the picture?
Illustration: On a wall near the entrance to the Alamo in San Antonio, Texas is a portrait with the following inscription: James Butler Bonham no picture of him exists. This is a portrait of his nephew, Mayor James Bonham, deceased, who greatly resembled his uncle. It is placed here by the family that the people may know the appearance of the man who died for freedom. No literal portrait of Jesus exists either. But the likeness of the Son who makes us free can be seen in the lives of His true followers.
Argumentation: Paul calls for a renewing of the mind. A new mind set. Matthew Henry says: see to it that there is a saving change wrought in you and that it be carried on.
John Gill calls the believer to progress and carrying on of the work of renovation, the renewing of them day by day in the spirit of their minds.
For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day. 2 Cor. 4:16
Application: Eph. 4:22-24:
That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
Put off the former things. (the old man)
Renew your mind. (mind the things of God)
Put on the new mind as stated in Hosea 5:4:
frame their doings to turn
Transition: Being a transformist and not a conformist marks the difference between true Christians and shallow imitators. But one more step is needed
Division 5 Statement: Be a leader, not a follower.
Explanation: It takes a person of great courage to step out of line and pledge to be different. No longer going
with the current, but going
counter-current.
Illustration: Martin Luther refused to follow the doctrines that the Roman Catholic church was teaching, when he nailed his 95 thesis to the door of the castle church in Wittenberg, Germany, he sparked one of the greatest reformations since Jesus time. Without his courage to step out of line and be a leader rather than a follower, we would not have great Reformers such as John Calvin, Carl Zwingly, and John Wycliff.
Argumentation: A transformist is a leader:
Who proves to others what is good, acceptable, and perfect. (cf. vs. 2) Refusing to go with the crowd.
Presents their bodies as a living sacrifice.
When people are having adulterous affairs, these people have the courage to say this is wrong and a sin to God and my wife and family.
Application: And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD. Josh. 24:15
A leader helps others fight off pressure to conform by doing just what Joshua did, encourage them to do what is right. Who are you encouraging? Take Jesus example to Peter:
And Peter answered him and said, Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water. And he said, Come. And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus. Mt. 14:28-29
Conclusion: Everyone experiences the pressure to conform:
1) in the workplace
2) teens among other teens
3) those who are older and in places of power and influence
As I see it, there are only two choices:
1) Either buckle under the load by those who are destroying their bodies, minds and souls,
2) Or, look to Jesus, the true non-conformist and follow His example.
Appeal: Who are you following after? The god of this world? We must not conform ourselves to the things of this world, they are mutable, they are passing away. And if youre a part of them, your passing away too. Will you step out from the crowd? Will you show what is good, acceptable, and right? Remember this, if you are conforming yourself after this world, its patterns, and flow, then you are conforming yourself to the god of this world and his end shall be cast into the lake of fire and brimstone. Be a transformer instead of a conformist.
God Bless
Till all are one.