My daily struggle

[faith by day]

I deleted this post b/c i dont need peoples bad remarks to ruin my days.. i rather get through this on my own anyway.. its nothing new.. i deal with it everyday... and when i thought that i could get help from you guys.. you prove wrong.... thanks...... really... thanks!!!!

 

[monkeystink]

Are your parents aware of the type of problem that you have? That this is a serious disorder that requires treatment! I would like to encourage you to seek treatment even if you have to go out on your own. I will pray for your peace of mind and safety...

Your brother in Christ,
Eric

 

[John 15:13]

I wish I knew what to say...

I don't know you. I'm in North Carolina and I don't know where you are. But I feel your pain. I know all you can do is "feel". I could never explain it. Still it's hard to put it into words for me. You might even doubt me. But I feel your pain.

And you'll never know how sorry I am that I don't know what to tell you so I'm just going to pray. PM me if you want. I've never volunteered information about my past to anyone. But you're where I once was. I didn't hurt myself but it's only by God's grace. I don't know what else to say...

 

[VivDaGurl]

Stop hurting yourself... it's very normal that we try to do something because we are seeking for attention. Maybe, you can try to cook something for you mom or help out with the house chores? This way, you can get attention as well...usually, moms don't ask what's wrong with their child and, we don't have to hurt ourself in order to get attention from them either.

I'll pray that your mom will understand your needs.

 

[faith by day]

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!! thats just what you think!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[NINGirl]

Usually when someone's going through a stage of cutting/depression, the last thing they want to hear is they're doing it for attention. It angered me when I went through it -- I'm pretty sure it applies for most.

I'll pray for you, too.

 

[Word of Peace]

it's very normal that we try to do something because we are seeking for attention.

Please don't assume! How do you know she did/does it for attention? How much do you know about her life? How do you know that the generalizations you're applying to her really do apply?

 

[VivDaGurl]

I'm sorry for what I said up there....

 

[Rosa Mystica]

I deleted this post b/c i dont need peoples bad remarks to ruin my days.. i rather get through this on my own anyway.. its nothing new.. i deal with it everyday... and when i thought that i could get help from you guys.. you prove wrong.... thanks...... really... thanks!!!!

Sweetie, what's wrong? You can tell me if you like (or not. It's up to you). Just remember that I won't insult or judge you. I have issues, too- lots of them. And, I also know how awful it feels to be judged.

I'm here if you want me to be. Hang in there, sweetheart.

Rosa

 

[Mr.Cheese]

Oh goodness.
Don't get mad. Try to help people understand self-injury.
You can't expect them to understand if you only get mad at them.
Sometimes you may have to walk away from the computer before you reply.