Dear Friends,
Its one of those pithy statements Jesus made that is so obviously true that you know you cant doubt it. He is talking about marriage:
What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder (Matt. 19:6).
This is usually quoted in marriage ceremonies. The two have come together in love and have chosen to wed, and each has said I do.
Now the big question: has it been God who has joined them together?
It wasnt the pastor or the rabbi or the Justice of the Peace who actually joined them together; he was only performing a public gesture that in itself recognized that something had drawn the two together in their love. The two who believe what Jesus said also believe that it wasnt merely testosterone or impulse or lust that brought them together; God brought them together and made them to be one.
Now when the storms of life with its tumult or its poverty perplex them, they are to commit [their] way unto the Lord; trust also in Him; ... Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him and choose to fret not (Psalm 37:5-7).
Their first trust is not to be each in his/her self or even in their spouse, but in the Lord. It has been He who has brought them together in marriage. Thats what Jesus is saying.
Yes, they will trust each other; you cant be happy unless you do. But your marriage has not been a self-motivated thing; the Lord has joined you together.
Thats why He has said dont let anyone put asunder what He has joined together.
How does He do it? He has given you the love that has brought you together. It is He who has created us male and female (Gen. 1:27). Sexual love is God-given, God-created. Believe that truth and happiness becomes yours. Ephesians 5:25 says, Husbands, love your wives but the verb for love is the verb for agape; and God says He IS agape. There is only one possible conclusion: sexual love is holy in Gods sight. And it should be in ours as well.
Which is why Hebrews 13:4 says that the marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled. The time has come in world history for us to look upon sex and marriage the way God does.
The reason? The greatest marriage of all eternity must soon happen: when the church makes herself ready for the marriage of the Lamb (Rev. 19:7, 8).
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Your brother in Christ,
Doc
Its one of those pithy statements Jesus made that is so obviously true that you know you cant doubt it. He is talking about marriage:
What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder (Matt. 19:6).
This is usually quoted in marriage ceremonies. The two have come together in love and have chosen to wed, and each has said I do.
Now the big question: has it been God who has joined them together?
It wasnt the pastor or the rabbi or the Justice of the Peace who actually joined them together; he was only performing a public gesture that in itself recognized that something had drawn the two together in their love. The two who believe what Jesus said also believe that it wasnt merely testosterone or impulse or lust that brought them together; God brought them together and made them to be one.
Now when the storms of life with its tumult or its poverty perplex them, they are to commit [their] way unto the Lord; trust also in Him; ... Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him and choose to fret not (Psalm 37:5-7).
Their first trust is not to be each in his/her self or even in their spouse, but in the Lord. It has been He who has brought them together in marriage. Thats what Jesus is saying.
Yes, they will trust each other; you cant be happy unless you do. But your marriage has not been a self-motivated thing; the Lord has joined you together.
Thats why He has said dont let anyone put asunder what He has joined together.
How does He do it? He has given you the love that has brought you together. It is He who has created us male and female (Gen. 1:27). Sexual love is God-given, God-created. Believe that truth and happiness becomes yours. Ephesians 5:25 says, Husbands, love your wives but the verb for love is the verb for agape; and God says He IS agape. There is only one possible conclusion: sexual love is holy in Gods sight. And it should be in ours as well.
Which is why Hebrews 13:4 says that the marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled. The time has come in world history for us to look upon sex and marriage the way God does.
The reason? The greatest marriage of all eternity must soon happen: when the church makes herself ready for the marriage of the Lamb (Rev. 19:7, 8).
________________________________________________
Your brother in Christ,
Doc