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Lost Squirrel

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You may not have noticed, but I've changed my religious status from "Christian Seeker" to "Christian", as this is one step closer toward becoming affirmed in the Lutheran faith.

On paper, I couldn't agree more with the ideals of this faith. I still had some hesitancy in abandoning my heritage, but that was purely for superficial reasons of "tradition". Once I actually began to attend services, however, it became blatantly clear that this really does seem to be my home. The beliefs are there (we will still attend Adult Ed classes to become even more knowledgeable), the sense of community is remarkably overwhelming, and the folks just seem to "get it" - that is, what it means to live the life of a christian, not just book it once mass is over and be rude in the parking lot on your way out. These people do things for the community, they are involved throughout the week, they treasure the friendships of their neighbors. THIS is what life should be, not having a separate "church life" that ends once the recessional hymn is over.

We attended another ELCA church last week. It was nice, but they didn't offer the sign of peace, and they followed a more "modern" textual format. While the message was there (and we truly enjoyed the sermon), they placed a lot of emphasis on the music. Overall, we just didn't feel as connected as we had in the other church.

This Sunday, we will definitely return to the first church I wrote about, and will proudly check the box in the attendance sheet that indicates "seeking new church home".
 

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great.

Although if they do not get back to you soon, you may have to actually approach the pastor about joining. Some churches are not always good at following up on those attendance sheets.
 
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Lost Squirrel

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She sent a beautiful handwritten welcome letter to us, and we are now widespread known as the "former Catholics who are interested in joining".
I am so pleased with the hospitality and goodwill of this church - not just to potential members, but also what we've witnessed between existing members and organizations (both Lutheran and non-Lutheran).

Membership is up - the average attendance has increased by 30 since we began attending. Perhaps this is because of the Lenten season, perhaps because of a new permanent pastor. Who knows, but just about every pew row is full - even the front (BTW, we are a few oddballs who enjoy sitting near the front).

The pastor wants to begin a practice of which small groups meet - either in their homes (neighbors together) or at the church - where she wants to spend time talking with everyone, getting to know us better.

My parents are even really excited to attend this church - we had been dragging them around with us as they are just as upset with our local RCC. Mom and I participated in a Rebekah Circle event yesterday at a nearby nursing home. What a rewarding experience. About a dozen church ladies spent the afternoon with the residents, playing Bingo, serving food and just being their "visitor".
 
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Sounds like you found your home! i am so happy for you! thats awesome that your parents want to go as well!! The last church we attended for years was a Nazarene church. my hubbys parents came there with us on and off for about a year and half. they eventually fell off. they never knew anything but the RC church either and though they loved the singing and the long sermon i think that sometimes the content of the sermons was a bit much for them. (a little too conservative, hellspeak). Maybe now that we are attending a more liberal church yet one with some rituals of familiarity from the RC maybe the would consider checking it out. They havent been to church in awhile now.

That is nice your starting at the church the same time as a new Pastor. The church we are attending had the same Pastor for 50 yrs and he just retired a little over a year ago. so the church's new Pastor has only been there for 14 mos.

How many services and how many members at your church? Ours holds 3 different services (one sat evening, 2 on sunday) and total between the services is about 250 people. So fairly small but not too small, i think a perfect size!! (my last church had about 100).

I have been to a few churches that had small home groups, it is a nice way to really get to know some people from church, in my opinion.

That Rebekah circle event at the nursing home sounds wonderful. there are a couple womans circles at my church i will have to find out more about them. i know the Methodist church does womans circles as well because i was a church Secretary for 3 yrs at our local Methodist church (though i never attended there). Plus my Grandma goes to a Methodist church and is in a circle and loves it.

Lots of new and interesting things to look forward to.
 
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