What are the steps to forgiveness? Is to forgive or is it to ask forgiveness first? I've lost a good friend from CF and even though many may not have agreed with his methods or liked him. He brought some interesting facts that even challenged the strongest Christians. I don't know if he's a member here anymore or is but I wish I could appoligize for the burnt bridges that was made. And If I could would like to mend things and ask for his forgivness for my crimes against him and others. You knew him as truthinfiction but I knew him as a friend, and if he was to read this or not I wish him well . May God keep all blessed