Yesterday I told my husband I wanted a divorce after he told me
he has been going to nude clubs.
I told him that's adultery. He said he doesn't care about that anymore.
He said it in front of our 5 year old son who was in the car with us at the time.
Also my husband, on the same day, told me he's forbidding the children from seeing me. Ages 9, 5 and 2. Until I get a job. This is easy for him to do because we do not live under the same roof.
I'm worried and scared. He has a horrible temper and curses out God and Jesus at the top of his lungs and cusses me out and tells the children to cuss, too. I'm sometimes scared of him, but since yesterday I feel so alone.
I cried over losing contact with my children.
I just don't know what to do.
We were going to go to the county courthouse together today to file, but
I put it off. I got him to say he'll consider counselling.
Counselling didn't go so well last time we tried it. It was the most abusive
2 hours of my week. Husband just yelled and cursed at me most of the time
and the pastor put up with it and coddled him.
I don't know what to do. My own parents divorced and I always vowed as a
child that I'd never do that to my own kids. But things are so bad now. Really bad. I'm all alone now. He doesn't visit me or bring the kids by now. He wants me to get a job. But only to support him, since he's unemployed, too.
Just pray for something good to happen. I don't know what. Thanks.
he has been going to nude clubs.
I told him that's adultery. He said he doesn't care about that anymore.
He said it in front of our 5 year old son who was in the car with us at the time.
Also my husband, on the same day, told me he's forbidding the children from seeing me. Ages 9, 5 and 2. Until I get a job. This is easy for him to do because we do not live under the same roof.
I'm worried and scared. He has a horrible temper and curses out God and Jesus at the top of his lungs and cusses me out and tells the children to cuss, too. I'm sometimes scared of him, but since yesterday I feel so alone.
I cried over losing contact with my children.
I just don't know what to do.
We were going to go to the county courthouse together today to file, but
I put it off. I got him to say he'll consider counselling.
Counselling didn't go so well last time we tried it. It was the most abusive
2 hours of my week. Husband just yelled and cursed at me most of the time
and the pastor put up with it and coddled him.
I don't know what to do. My own parents divorced and I always vowed as a
child that I'd never do that to my own kids. But things are so bad now. Really bad. I'm all alone now. He doesn't visit me or bring the kids by now. He wants me to get a job. But only to support him, since he's unemployed, too.
Just pray for something good to happen. I don't know what. Thanks.
