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May a Catholic Get Married on the Streets of New York City?

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DIFFICULT MORAL QUESTIONS: What are the conditions under which a layperson may witness a marriage? And is it licit to celebrate a marriage ceremony outside of a church?

Q. Recently I was informed that a Catholic consecrated person who is a member of an ecclesial movement officiated at a wedding on the streets of New York City. There were no clergy present. The event became a public spectacle and one that, in my opinion, should not have taken place. I’m very concerned because I think not only that it is an invalid marriage, but also that it brings scandal to the Church through mocking the sacrament. I would like to speak with both the couple and the consecrated person about this event, but I am not sure what to tell them. Do you have any advice? — Tom

A. Before I answer your question, I need to clarify a point. According to canon law, only those who are ordained — bishops, priests and deacons — can officiate validly at weddings except in circumstances carefully circumscribed by canon law itself. Those circumstances provide for the possibility of laypeople — i.e., non-ordained people — validly officiating. The fact that an officiant is a consecrated person and/or a member of an ecclesial movement is irrelevant to our consideration of whether the marriage was valid. When I use the expression “layperson,” I am referring to those who are not ordained, whether or not they are consecrated or members of an ecclesial movement.

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A priest married my husband and myself in my husband's living room. I didn't know that much about Catholicism at that time and thought it was ok. The priest was really liberal and was always bending the rules, I found out later.
 
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DIFFICULT MORAL QUESTIONS: What are the conditions under which a layperson may witness a marriage? And is it licit to celebrate a marriage ceremony outside of a church?

Q. Recently I was informed that a Catholic consecrated person who is a member of an ecclesial movement officiated at a wedding on the streets of New York City. There were no clergy present. The event became a public spectacle and one that, in my opinion, should not have taken place. I’m very concerned because I think not only that it is an invalid marriage, but also that it brings scandal to the Church through mocking the sacrament. I would like to speak with both the couple and the consecrated person about this event, but I am not sure what to tell them. Do you have any advice? — Tom

A. Before I answer your question, I need to clarify a point. According to canon law, only those who are ordained — bishops, priests and deacons — can officiate validly at weddings except in circumstances carefully circumscribed by canon law itself. Those circumstances provide for the possibility of laypeople — i.e., non-ordained people — validly officiating. The fact that an officiant is a consecrated person and/or a member of an ecclesial movement is irrelevant to our consideration of whether the marriage was valid. When I use the expression “layperson,” I am referring to those who are not ordained, whether or not they are consecrated or members of an ecclesial movement.

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While it wasn't the streets of New York City, Joe Biden married two people at his home when he was vice president. He likely got no dispensation for the event. In fact it would be big news if he did get a dispensation for it.
 
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While it wasn't the streets of New York City, Joe Biden married two people at his home when he was vice president. He likely got no dispensation for the event. In fact it would be big news if he did get a dispensation for it.
I know he married a gay couple.
 
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