What does marry mean exactly? Cain and Abel didnt have a pastor or a rabbi.
13. On the Nature of the Marriage Union
13. On the Nature of the Marriage Union
538 In the Bible, premarital sex, if discovered, led to a forced marriage unless the father of the woman insisted otherwise (539 And the more common term (tame)implies “uncleanness,” an interruption of the wholeness or wholesomeness of life.540Marriage is never typified simply by the sexual act, or even by the idea of “one flesh.”541
It might be argued that a marriage is not final until sexual relations have taken place. Deuteronomy 20:7 speaks of a man who has become engaged to a woman but has not “taken” her yet. The woman is an “unclaimed blessing.” The text reveals that the covenant with her has not been consummated. But the term used (laqah) is not the most common Hebrew word for marriage, and in the Deuteronomic text it may simply be referring to consummation rather than to marriage per se. Beyond this, there are a number of other passages that understand the engaged couple to enjoy the same status before law as those persons in a fully consummated union, though they have not had sexual union.