marriage advice/bipolar

[dovespirit]

help me to understand im married 32 yrs my husband puts me down alot doesnt show me love the way a man supposed to show me ;he was an alcholic and use to beat me my dad raped n beat me when i was 12 n up i have bi polar ptsd depression ptsd i no longer want to be married just too much mental abuse i dont feel any love for him anymore ; my counselor told me to find my own place its not good for me to be aroung this ;will GOD punish me for feeling this way ? is it a sin ive been through counseling wth him and my counselor seen what he does ;

 

[Ace99]

Hi dove spirit, God will not punish you if you are in abusive relationship and you leave, first of all you really need to pray into this and seek God, find out what he desires, i wouldnt think he would want you to stay in abusive relationship, your safety and that of your children comes first. you can pm and we can chat about it if you would like.

 

[sapientiauk]

Hi Dove Spirit,
This sounds like the kind of situation that requires close and constant support from the body. Make sure you talk to your pastor/minister about what is happening and seek godly counsel as you move forward. That being said - I agree with Ace99 that if you are being abused that you need to get out of that situation ASAP and ensure that you honour God by looking after yourself as He would want you to.

 

[RuthD]

Your counselor is right. It is not a sin. God bless you. I am praying for you.

 

[Loven God]

God did not mean for a marriage to be that way . God would want you to be safe . You need to get away from there before you get hurt . Pluse it will only make your bipolar worse .