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This might be a bad title for the thread, because what I am about to discuss may in fact be very important to people's prayer lives and thus may not be "light" in the sense of a light beer or something that is less substantial. It may be just as substantial or more substantial. I was just having a hard time with words for a subject line that would get what I'm talking about across any better.

A lot of people tend to have trouble with some of the more extreme teachings of St. Louis De Montfort where Mary seems to hold such a central places and where pledges of complete consecration to Mary are encouraged, and the theology that some hold where some say Mary is the Mediatorix of *all graces* or the co-redemptrix. Similarly, people might have trouble swallowing the idea of apparitions of the Virgin Mary, especially those that depict the Virgin as a very stern hell-threatening figure urging fasting on bread and water to avoid the whole world going to hell or something.

Yet, it is very imaginable that there could be a contingent of folks who, while rejecting all that, admire the soft loving holy biblical figure of Mary, who perhaps may be without sin, but is wholly human and not a figure who is imposing or stern, and who isn't the direct of cause of our redemption or person through who all graces flow. Maybe some believe that the Mary's body was assumed into heaven after her death or with her in a deep coma, as is believed in the east, depicted in ancient artwork, and technically not in conflict with the dogma of the Assumption as stated by the Pope who made it dogmatic (Modern western artwork aside). Such people might have a statue of Mary, they may pray the rosary without the Fatima prayers, and so on and so forth.

Often we get this picture of a Marian devotion having to be to a figure who has undergone a lot of, let's say character development, since her time on earth, the Marian equivalent of an angry God, complete with an almost godlike role in the universe and in the plan of salvation and in grace. Then we get this other picture of folks who would never say a "Hail Mary" or believe that Marian devotion is not for them or somehow not ideal for whatever reason.

I wonder if there is a middle ground of people devoted to a simpler version of Mary, who was a scared unwed mother and said "Be done to me according to thy will", and who Jesus in his dying breaths asked St. John to take care of. A woman who cried as her son died, and was an empathetic figure, but who's tears didn't somehow save us from our sin (i.e. was not the co-redemptrix). Who Jesus loved, and is in heaven, but is not the person through whom all graces to earth flow. Someone with a statue, but not necessarily a crown (Figuratively speaking).

Anyone out there like that?
 

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Mary is foremost my mother .

All the devotions and titles given to Mary I see as adornments for my mother , Mary .

And who doesn't want to adorn and say beautiful things about their mother ?

I like Pope Francis' devotion to Mary as Our Lady Untier of Knots .

We all get tied up and end up in knots during life . I see Mary , as my mother , untying those knots ......setting me free to grow as a beloved son of the Father .

I love my mother Mary .
 
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I was raised in a nominal Catholic environment but at age 30 became a full blown Evangelical and had very little Marion knowledge. Even now as a Lutheran my appreciation of the BVM grew substantially after watching this video.
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I was raised in a nominal Catholic environment but at age 30 became a full blown Evangelical and had very little Marion knowledge. Even now as a Lutheran my appreciation of the BVM grew substantially after watching this video.
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Thanks Tigger .

That's a great video . One all would benefit from watching .
 
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My whole venture into Catholicism was started by one Hail Mary. When they say to Jesus through Mary, I know exactly what they mean. I'm living evidence.

Thank God for the Hail Mary . :oldthumbsup:

A late parish priest told us of an incident in a previous parish .

He had been given an address in some apartments because someone was sick there and requested a priest .

He went to the address to be greeted by a lady .

No , she wasn't sick and had not requested a visit from a priest .

Anyway , she let him in and they got talking .

It turned out that she had been baptised into the Church , but as she grew up had drifted away many , many years before .

Her mother had asked her to do one thing though......to pray the Hail Mary every day .

She followed her mother's request , prayed the Hail Mary , but had no other contact with the church .

By the time the priest had left , she had made her Confession , received absolution , and started practising her Catholic faith .

The priest never found out which address he was supposed to have gone to .

Just coincidence , or Mary leading this lady to her Son and His Church ?
 
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Thank God for the Hail Mary . :oldthumbsup:

A late parish priest told us of an incident in a previous parish .

He had been given an address in some apartments because someone was sick there and requested a priest .

He went to the address to be greeted by a lady .

No , she wasn't sick and had not requested a visit from a priest .

Anyway , she let him in and they got talking .

It turned out that she had been baptised into the Church , but as she grew up had drifted away many , many years before .

Her mother had asked her to do one thing though......to pray the Hail Mary every day .

She followed her mother's request , prayed the Hail Mary , but had no other contact with the church .

By the time the priest had left , she had made her Confession , received absolution , and started practising her Catholic faith .

The priest never found out which address he was supposed to have gone to .

Just coincidence , or Mary leading this lady to her Son and His Church ?

I believe! :clap:

My journey into the Church took a significant step when my mother-in-law passed away. That was were I heard my first rosary and saw my first mass. I knew something really different was going on with those priests and the liturgy. It was right after her funeral that I really started to feel in earnest that something was pulling me towards the Church. I wonder if it was her prayers from heaven that helped push me over the thresh hold. I also wonder if it means anything that she was born on February 11th and her name is Lourdes. ;)
 
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In some ways Mary is kind of the thread that keeps me connected to faith a bit, and more so since I've become a mom, although I share a lot more in common with Elizabeth as a mom :)
 
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I believe! :clap:

My journey into the Church took a significant step when my mother-in-law passed away. That was were I heard my first rosary and saw my first mass. I knew something really different was going on with those priests and the liturgy. It was right after her funeral that I really started to feel in earnest that something was pulling me towards the Church. I wonder if it was her prayers from heaven that helped push me over the thresh hold. I also wonder if it means anything that she was born on February 11th and her name is Lourdes. ;)

WOW , Tad . :)

You certainly have special connections with Lourdes , in more ways than one .
 
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WOW , Tad . :)

You certainly have special connections with Lourdes , in more ways than one .

That's why I don't really struggle with belief. I mean, when this all started I knew nothing and had no idea what I was headed into but as I took those little leaps of faith and I would look back to see from where I had come, it's easy to see God's merciful provision working in my life.
 
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I spend very little time on Marian devotions. I try to do part of the Divine Office at divineoffice.org each day, and there are often Marian prayers as a part of evening and night prayer.

I see Mary and most of the women in Biblical times as being much stronger than they are given credit for. (Part of this probably comes from reading "The Red Tent," about Jacob's wives and their families.) I think about what it was like to ride hundreds of miles on a donkey while 9 months pregnant, or to give birth in a stable. What it was like to flee to Egypt, not knowing the language, away from family support. What it was like to be a young widow. What it was like to be a 15 year old mother.

What it was like to take care of a teenage kid who had been told to take care of her when her Son was on the cross.

What it was like to be the glue who held the frightened apostles together, to be exiled in Greece with St. John.

Then I look at that serene face and hands that look like they never washed a dish and I think, "We are being sold a bill of goods."
 
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