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Meh, I don't see what the big deal is. If it's not important to them, it's not important to them. I'm not sure what 'important' means to other people anyway. Do I enjoy making love to my husband? Yes. Would I miss it if we didn't? Yes. Do I think my marriage (and the rest of the universe) should revolve around it? Not so much.Mrs. Enigma said:These sorts of posts drive me crazy. Sorry to hear you feel that way.AutumnDreamer said:Sex really isn't that important. Maybe it is the years of battling infertility, but for my husband and I we love on each other so much during the day that at night time there is only one reason for sex, the ending, and it just isn't that important. When we do have it, it is great. But it just isn't a priority, we have a great marriage so why would it be depressing that we just don't think sex is that important?
gracefaith said:Meh, I don't see what the big deal is. If it's not important to them, it's not important to them. I'm not sure what 'important' means to other people anyway. Do I enjoy making love to my husband? Yes. Would I miss it if we didn't? Yes. Do I think my marriage (and the rest of the universe) should revolve around it? Not so much.
To me sex is just a regular, natural part of life. I still think people make way too big a deal about it, but then again, I'm one of the satisfied ones. If I wasn't satisfied, I might feel differently.
Yeah, I agree with you.AutumnDreamer said:I am thinking people are misunderstanding my post to mean we don't ever have sex, which is far from accurate. It just isn't a priority, we get much closer to each other by doing things together then from having sex, that is so much more important to both of us.
I agree with you too.AutumnDreamer said:I am thinking people are misunderstanding my post to mean we don't ever have sex, which is far from accurate. It just isn't a priority, we get much closer to each other by doing things together then from having sex, that is so much more important to both of us.
I do that tooheartnsoul said:I agree with you too.I think sex is important but it's not the big picture in a marriage. The big picture is the actual relationship "outside" of the bedroom.
Mlukas, instead of feeling "depressed" about others, why not pray for others and ask God to bless all of us with a passionate sex life? Prayer and compassion is the answer.
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