I sold my dad's riding mower for $500.
My sister hates me because I didn't tell her I was selling it. But she was at my house when I was setting up the garage sale and after I asked her for a year if she wanted it, I had told her for another year that if she didn't want it, I was going to sell it. I asked her one more time before I sold it. She even helped me set the price on it. Now she says I sold it without her permission.
She's also mad because I told her husband that I sold it. She's mad because I put her share of the money in an envelope and gave it to her son to give to her (she's been angry with me since June and won't visit me and won't let me visit her), and she set it on the desk in the kitchen where her husband found it and put it in the bank. She thinks that if I never told him that I sold the mower, he wouldn't have taken the money to the bank.
She has a problem with spending and thinks nothing of spending $1000 at a single store in a single day, plus she hides credit cards from her husband with thousands of dollars in charges on them that she can't pay, plus she sneaks money out of their account to spend on senseless things like tiny pink babydoll shoes because she thinks they are cute (she's in her 50's now).
She emailed to tell me that she hates me for all this, plus much much more.
What's the best way to deal with her?
My sister hates me because I didn't tell her I was selling it. But she was at my house when I was setting up the garage sale and after I asked her for a year if she wanted it, I had told her for another year that if she didn't want it, I was going to sell it. I asked her one more time before I sold it. She even helped me set the price on it. Now she says I sold it without her permission.
She's also mad because I told her husband that I sold it. She's mad because I put her share of the money in an envelope and gave it to her son to give to her (she's been angry with me since June and won't visit me and won't let me visit her), and she set it on the desk in the kitchen where her husband found it and put it in the bank. She thinks that if I never told him that I sold the mower, he wouldn't have taken the money to the bank.
She has a problem with spending and thinks nothing of spending $1000 at a single store in a single day, plus she hides credit cards from her husband with thousands of dollars in charges on them that she can't pay, plus she sneaks money out of their account to spend on senseless things like tiny pink babydoll shoes because she thinks they are cute (she's in her 50's now).
She emailed to tell me that she hates me for all this, plus much much more.
What's the best way to deal with her?
