Lost without her

[halfaman]

Hello,
I lost my wife, best friend and my little bit of heaven on earth this month Oct. 15th, 2005. I am lost without her. The only thing keeping me going right now is my three kids, 16-14-12. If anyone else has experienced this please write and tell me how you got through it all. She was only 43 and right now I am angry and confused. At times I feel that God has punished me for something, but I know he has a plan and that he does not have to reveal this to me, but it doesn't make it easier. For once in my life I am questioning everything, but I know I shouldn't. I feel empty, lost and numb. But I have to keep going for the kids. Thanks for listening

 

[ChasingADream]

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't really relate to your situation through personal experience but I can only imagine what you're going through. I will pray for you.


God Bless

 

[worldwatcher]

My heart goes out to you...I am so sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you

 

[Theresasjourney]

Hello,
I lost my wife, best friend and my little bit of heaven on earth this month Oct. 15th, 2005. I am lost without her. The only thing keeping me going right now is my three kids, 16-14-12. If anyone else has experienced this please write and tell me how you got through it all. She was only 43 and right now I am angry and confused. At times I feel that God has punished me for something, but I know he has a plan and that he does not have to reveal this to me, but it doesn't make it easier. For once in my life I am questioning everything, but I know I shouldn't. I feel empty, lost and numb. But I have to keep going for the kids. Thanks for listening

I am so sorry you lost your precious Denise and your kids lost their mother. And all you reactions and feelings I am sure are very normal but still very painful.
My prayers are with you and your family and that God will meet your need and your childrens needs...
Have you looked at the grief forum here?

 

[rocklife]

am praying for you and your kids

 

[FollowHisPath]

Im sorry about your loss. I am 16 years old and cant even imagine lossing a parent at those ages. Tell your kids that this is from another kid .....Hang in there, even though your mother will never be at seeing you off to Junior/Senior prom, highschool graduation, wedding, starting a family that she is always looking down at you and smiling at you each and every day because of your accomplishments.

Praying for the family!

 

[rose4u2]

hi there,

i don't know if this will help you but it sure helps me. although i have not gone through a loss like yours i know those who have very close to me. i always hear to keep real busy and also as hard as it is to help others (as this will take your mind off things and make you feel better) also join a grief support group that will help you and the kids. call your local hospital and ask where you can find one. try an online support group too

 

[charvel]

Very sorry,my condolences and I will pray for you and the children.

 

[justcallmejamie]

Hey half, you and your kids are in my prayers. God bless you, draw near to the Lord and he will draw near to you. Remember your armor.

 

[halfaman]

Thanks Jamie I appreciate all you have done for me!

 

[Pentecostal Boy]

I am so sorry. I know it hurts. And for awhile you do want to blame God, because it is very easy to do. Just keep the faith and pray. That's all you can do. Just think abotu what she would want you to do. I.E. Don't grieve, I know this is easier said than done. Just pray to Jesus. God Bless you man.

~P-Boy.

 

[Antoinette.Marie]

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. May you find peace and comfort in the Lord Jesus. Bless you. ing for you.

 

[halfaman]

Thank you All so much for your prayers and thoughts...it's been several weeks since that day and it is getting better each day. Kids seem to be faring better than me in all of this...but I have put all my time into them to make sure thay are okay. They are my most precious gifts!

 

[halfaman]

Thanks to all of you who have blessed and touched my life!

 

[CountryLady]

Big hugs to you halfaman, I'm praying for you. God bless you and your children.

 

[brendansmommy]

So sorry for your loss...my prayers and thoughts go out to you!

 

[Pentecostal Boy]

listen to these to songs man: http://peachpatch.com/hero.html & http://www.blueyez.us/hopeyoudance.html

 

[GodsGirl]

Praying for you and your children. I lost my father at 15, he was 45. Know that our family is praying for yours each day. Know the Lord provide you with the comfort, peace and strength you need each day.

 

[karen4you]

Hello,
I lost my wife, best friend and my little bit of heaven on earth this month Oct. 15th, 2005. I am lost without her. The only thing keeping me going right now is my three kids, 16-14-12. If anyone else has experienced this please write and tell me how you got through it all. She was only 43 and right now I am angry and confused. At times I feel that God has punished me for something, but I know he has a plan and that he does not have to reveal this to me, but it doesn't make it easier. For once in my life I am questioning everything, but I know I shouldn't. I feel empty, lost and numb. But I have to keep going for the kids. Thanks for listening

I have lost someone very close to me, my brother. He was only 38 years old. He was my best friend in the whole world. He made me laugh soooo much, my stomach would hurt. 3 months before he passed, I moved a long way just to be near him and his family. What got me through was God and through God he used the people closest too me to get through. Even my mom, who lost her only son, was a pillar of strength. She knew we had a deep bond, but to this day, 7 years later, I'm amazed at her strength. God will use the closest people in your life to get you through the hardest times. He even uses strangers to pray for you too. Keeping only the good memories and holding on too them will help and of course time. Days pass into weeks, weeks pass in months and months pass into years. Great memories never leave, but the pain will ease in the coming seasons. The holidays are upon us (happy thanksgiving to you and the kids). Keep her memory alive with her loving spirit, because I know she would not want all of you to be depressed. She was not an unhappy soul on this earth, but alive with much love to give, and she is supremely happy in heaven. She is always looking down, not with a frown, but with a smile because thats all they know in such a beautiful place. So, don't fret my friend, God will emininate his and Dee's love all throughout the days until you meet face to face. Love, your friend in christ. Karen4you

 

[HollyHobbie]

halfaman,

I wish I had the words to say ! to help ease your sorrow and your kids sorrow as well but I don't, all that I can do is pray for you and your kids, and leave you with this poem I wrote on January 21,2002

The Wind Is Blowing

The wind is blowing cold today
I don't know what to do
As I shiver here in my despair
I hear a voice,saying Child come hear

Its not my way Lord I say
Where are you anyway ?

I am in the shadows of the night
I am in the warmth of the bright
sunlight
I am in the wind that is blowing
cold
Its your hand I long to hold
You I want to sheild from the
cold

Please make the right choice
Follow my voice
I will shelter thee !

Written by Laura M
(Holly Hobbie )