Lost loved ones

[littleblue]

i lost two loved ones in a period of two weeks last month. they were both old but i miss them terribly. i've been trying to move on but i still have a cry some nights before i go to bed. i keep thinking of all the things they'll miss out on seeing and doing with me.
selfish as it sounds, i would rather them to be back here and nothing to have changed.... but that isn't gonna happen.

 

[praying]

i lost two loved ones in a period of two weeks last month. they were both old but i miss them terribly. i've been trying to move on but i still have a cry some nights before i go to bed. i keep thinking of all the things they'll miss out on seeing and doing with me.
selfish as it sounds, i would rather them to be back here and nothing to have changed.... but that isn't gonna happen.

There is no need for you too feel like you must "move on" or as I am interpreting from your post get over it. These were people you loved and it is still very very soon to even think you should be over the grieving process. It takes time and there is no formula for how much time. We all grieve differently. You need only be concerned if you can't function because of this.

Also they aren't lost they will always be with you in your memory, in your heart. I have always told my kids since they were very small if something happens to me I will always always be in your heart. There to call on when you need a warm smile of a fond memory.

God Bless!

mhatten

 

[Ruth~]

I'm very sorry for your losses. It doesn't matter that they are older, it still hurts and it's still grieving you are going through. Be gentle with yourself, this is a hard time for you. Allow yourself to feel however you feel whenever you feel it. Also, try to take a little time to do something good for yourself that you enjoy. Take care.

 

[EveryThingIDoIDoItForYou]

I Lost an elderly love one, it was 6 years back and i stil havnt got over the fact shes not here. It was my nana.. but she was like a mother to me.. i still cry at nights and wish she was here but.. i have memories and memories is all i need, I hope you are ok but just remember If we didnt lose the ones we loved, then what love would there be to lose..i hope that makes sence im still young.. Good luck with your life, have a good en.. Adam

 

[MendedHeart]

i lost two loved ones in a period of two weeks last month. they were both old but i miss them terribly. i've been trying to move on but i still have a cry some nights before i go to bed. i keep thinking of all the things they'll miss out on seeing and doing with me.
selfish as it sounds, i would rather them to be back here and nothing to have changed.... but that isn't gonna happen.

Sorry for your loss
You will be in my prayers.God bless you!!