I'm trying to compile a comprehensive recommended reading list for my teenage daughters. I've got the College board's "101 books to read before College" and our schoolboard's list, and several other lists. But they seem to be ... well, pompous rather than comprehensive. Really, how many people honestly think a person truly have "The Scarlet Letter" on their "must read" list? And not one of the lists includes "Stranger in a Strange Land" or "Childhood's End" -- reflecting the literary world's general ignorance of science fiction (an ignorance reflected in the number of times Atwood tiresome "The Handmaid's Tale" gets touted as great science fiction by 'experts' who have never read anything else in the genre).
So I'm trying to compile my own. And the person whose opinion I respect the most having declined to contribute to the project on the grounds that he doesn't consider himself wellread
I'm looking to other Science Fiction readers to help me out. I've found that SF readers tend to be just a tad more broadly read than mainstream readers and a little more likely to look at the actual literary quality of a book than the hype the book has gotten from grade 12 English lit teachers of the last century.
I'm by no means eschewing non-Science-Fiction classics. But I'd like to include the classics that people really respect and read -- not the ones that they just think they should have read because they sound impressive. So will you help me out? What are the books that the readers on this forum think that every well-read person should have read?
So I'm trying to compile my own. And the person whose opinion I respect the most having declined to contribute to the project on the grounds that he doesn't consider himself wellread

I'm by no means eschewing non-Science-Fiction classics. But I'd like to include the classics that people really respect and read -- not the ones that they just think they should have read because they sound impressive. So will you help me out? What are the books that the readers on this forum think that every well-read person should have read?