- Jan 4, 2006
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Hi everyone, hope your weeks are starting off ok, just creating this thread as i got some thoughts going around in my head and need some help to try work out what might be the best thing to do in this situation.
So to give some background and i think I have spoken about this a little to some of you, I have in the past being in a long term relationship that lasted about 4 years and ended early 2014. In the time between now and than i have gone through quite a few changes in my life and have gone from a sad lonely depressed kinda feeling penetrating throughout alot of things in my life, to a place where i feel abundantly happy in almost every area in my life. God has done a significant restoration in my life and has turned so much around in my life.
As part of the turn around in alot of areas in my life i feel my heart has healed and i have dealt with alot of the issues that arose through the breakup and I feel comfortable to be able to converse with my previous partner as we do share some common friends and activities due to us being in 2 different campuses of the same church. So in my heart, I have moved on and feel ready to take the next leap in life onto bigger and brighter things and a friendship is very slowly starting to bud, it isnt much yet but i do see some signs it might develop further down the track.
So i have a couple of questions, I still have some photos up on my facebook of my previous relationship one of them in particular is her kissing me on the cheek and theres several other photos of me and her looking happy together. So 1) In moving on in life would you take down these photos considering i still have some communication although not very often with her. And 2) Should i approach the subject with my previous partner informing her considering if i go on her profile i still see these photos up on her photos.
I just feel i guess that i should start to slowly lay a possible foundation for what could develop in the future or do i just bring up the photos when the time comes down the track if something does develop with my new friend
I hope this doesnt sound silly but I just want to do the right thing as i feel i did mess alot of things up in the past. Thanks for any advice that i do get, i feel safe that i can ask questions here and i am thankful for that and the friendships i have through this site
So to give some background and i think I have spoken about this a little to some of you, I have in the past being in a long term relationship that lasted about 4 years and ended early 2014. In the time between now and than i have gone through quite a few changes in my life and have gone from a sad lonely depressed kinda feeling penetrating throughout alot of things in my life, to a place where i feel abundantly happy in almost every area in my life. God has done a significant restoration in my life and has turned so much around in my life.
As part of the turn around in alot of areas in my life i feel my heart has healed and i have dealt with alot of the issues that arose through the breakup and I feel comfortable to be able to converse with my previous partner as we do share some common friends and activities due to us being in 2 different campuses of the same church. So in my heart, I have moved on and feel ready to take the next leap in life onto bigger and brighter things and a friendship is very slowly starting to bud, it isnt much yet but i do see some signs it might develop further down the track.
So i have a couple of questions, I still have some photos up on my facebook of my previous relationship one of them in particular is her kissing me on the cheek and theres several other photos of me and her looking happy together. So 1) In moving on in life would you take down these photos considering i still have some communication although not very often with her. And 2) Should i approach the subject with my previous partner informing her considering if i go on her profile i still see these photos up on her photos.
I just feel i guess that i should start to slowly lay a possible foundation for what could develop in the future or do i just bring up the photos when the time comes down the track if something does develop with my new friend
I hope this doesnt sound silly but I just want to do the right thing as i feel i did mess alot of things up in the past. Thanks for any advice that i do get, i feel safe that i can ask questions here and i am thankful for that and the friendships i have through this site