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Just keep pushing forward with the change, regardless of how your husband responds to it. You need this change for YOU - in order to be a healthier person. Hopefully, since your husband is open to counseling, he will soften his heart in time and see the changes you are making are genuine and long-term.

While you are struggling with his dramatic change in attitude, please try to keep in mind that he has been living with the "old" you for these past several years. Just because you know you're making these changes doesn't mean he's going to be able to believe they're going to be long-lasting until more time has passed.

Praying for you both and for your marriage to be mended. :prayer:
 
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