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I wanted to say goodbye to my true friends here on CF who stuck by my side and was genuine to me and kind to me.
There is this male who wants me OFF of CF so very badly so I am leaving.
Also I don't have much to talk about as I am a nobody, I am not married or I don't have kids so many women see that is a flaw.
Anyway, thank you for my true friends who were there for me and were kind.
God bless my real friends!
Take care and where ever my travels take me I will always be thinking of my true friends. I had a nice time here on CF!
(((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))))) to my real friends! Over and out! :wave:
 
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aflower4God said:
I wanted to say goodbye to my true friends here on CF who stuck by my side and was genuine to me and kind to me.
There is this male who wants me OFF of CF so very badly so I am leaving.
Also I don't have much to talk about as I am a nobody, I am not married or I don't have kids so many women see that is a flaw.
Anyway, thank you for my true friends who were there for me and were kind.
God bless my real friends!
Take care and where ever my travels take me I will always be thinking of my true friends. I had a nice time here on CF!
(((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))))) to my real friends! Over and out! :wave:
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Flower, you sent me a message but I can't read it; your account is private. If you open it I will send you my email address.

Find me through iconismus.wordpress.com. I don't want to lose touch with you; you are a real gem. xxx
 
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:heart: Awwwwwwww flower, i pray that you will reconsider, precious...i'm sooooo sorry that this person treated you so badly. Praying that you stay in spite of it, and that God intervenes on your behalf, dear heart. You are much beloved here and the heart of CF, the very heartbeat of it. Please reconsider. (((hug)))
 
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aflower4God said:
I wanted to say goodbye to my true friends here on CF who stuck by my side and was genuine to me and kind to me.
There is this male who wants me OFF of CF so very badly so I am leaving.
Also I don't have much to talk about as I am a nobody, I am not married or I don't have kids so many women see that is a flaw.
Anyway, thank you for my true friends who were there for me and were kind.
God bless my real friends!
Take care and where ever my travels take me I will always be thinking of my true friends. I had a nice time here on CF!
(((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))))) to my real friends! Over and out! :wave:
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So sorry you feel like this but I must ask you and I hope you are not offended by this but how do you know this person wants you off CF? Have they actually said they do? I say this because when you are depressed and very sensitive to begin with it is so easy to start imagining people are against you when they are not. I know because I have done this myself many times in the past. I also had the same problem on another Christian board about 10 years ago when I felt some people didn't like me and wanted me gone. I realise now that wasn't the case, rather it was me being oversensitive about certain things. I think while you are waiting for an appointment with your therapist you should read some books on CBT as that teaches you how to deal with thoughts like " so and so hates me" or whatever. The trick is to examine the evidence coolly and see if it really matches what you are thinking.

I hope you don't leave for good but I have found that when I have been having issues with people on certain boards, including the one I mentioned above, that taking some "time out" can be a great help. I know when I did that time when I returned things were a lot better. In the meantime I'll miss you here. :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
 
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