I know... I know... you probably get a thread like this every month or so (or more?). I apologize in advance. But my question is actually a bit more focused... or... general I suppose than what you are thinking. The question of closed communion is actually a by product of a bigger issue that I was, until recently, completely unaware of in the LCMS. Quoting from a post (I forget whose, sorry
) from the LCMS vs WELS thread:
As a former LCMSer, I didn't know about this (above) until very recently.
I have some questions then. I grew up in an LCMS parish that paid close attention to the practice of "closed communion" interpreted as no one outside of the LCMS may commune at an LCMS parish (with special exceptions that are discussed on a very individual basis beforehand and usually involve lutherans of other synods related to the LCMS through marriage or blood, but since they are exceptions they are not the rule). ANd it is my understanding that this is so according to official Synodal teaching. Clicking here: http://www.lcms.org/pages/internal.asp?NavID=422 it would SEEM that such is basically stated (that only LCMSers may approach except in case of extreme situations).
But then I went to LCMS parishes that said nothing of the sort but only stated in their pew pamphlets that if you believe this this and that and have done this you can approach the chalice. I used to wonder why they weren't kicked out of the Synod for this. Is part of the reason because of this loose centralization and strong individuality of each parish? What MUST an LCMS parish abide by in order to continue to be considered LCMS? Under what circumstances could the Synod revoke the right of a parish to use the synodal label.
Honestly, my questions are not meant to stir up trouble. My mom had just told me the fact I quoted above a few weeks ago and it seemed like such an important fact that I had never been aware of before. So, I am trying to explore this to understand what it means more and, by proxy, what Closed Communion means in the LCMS context.
Thanks in advance,
Xpy
PS: sorry if my questions seem jumbled. Just answer what you will and I will try to focus the thread as it fills in the blanks for me. Thanks a lot guys (and gals)!

As was noted above, I think there is a slight difference in how the denomination is viewed. The LCMS sees the denomination as a loose association of congregations (from the bottom, up), each congregation is individually owned, etc.
As a former LCMSer, I didn't know about this (above) until very recently.
I have some questions then. I grew up in an LCMS parish that paid close attention to the practice of "closed communion" interpreted as no one outside of the LCMS may commune at an LCMS parish (with special exceptions that are discussed on a very individual basis beforehand and usually involve lutherans of other synods related to the LCMS through marriage or blood, but since they are exceptions they are not the rule). ANd it is my understanding that this is so according to official Synodal teaching. Clicking here: http://www.lcms.org/pages/internal.asp?NavID=422 it would SEEM that such is basically stated (that only LCMSers may approach except in case of extreme situations).
But then I went to LCMS parishes that said nothing of the sort but only stated in their pew pamphlets that if you believe this this and that and have done this you can approach the chalice. I used to wonder why they weren't kicked out of the Synod for this. Is part of the reason because of this loose centralization and strong individuality of each parish? What MUST an LCMS parish abide by in order to continue to be considered LCMS? Under what circumstances could the Synod revoke the right of a parish to use the synodal label.
Honestly, my questions are not meant to stir up trouble. My mom had just told me the fact I quoted above a few weeks ago and it seemed like such an important fact that I had never been aware of before. So, I am trying to explore this to understand what it means more and, by proxy, what Closed Communion means in the LCMS context.
Thanks in advance,
Xpy
PS: sorry if my questions seem jumbled. Just answer what you will and I will try to focus the thread as it fills in the blanks for me. Thanks a lot guys (and gals)!