Ladies, how handsy do you like your husband?

Whatever you and your wife are comfortable with, is what you should do. Doesn't really matter what others think.

thisguy777 said:

Us Husbands need to know. so please be open about it. my wife and I disagree as to the extent Christian woman like want foreplay. In marriage, her Love language is fulfilled. this is contention in many marriages. how prudish are Chistian women. please respond to better clarify answers (if you can, this is my first post, not sure home this works)

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Foreplay is one thing , handsy( groping) is another. I suspect you may not know the difference which is why there is conflict.

Here is a basic rundown on the difference.

Foreplay is a mutually consensual act of sexual stimulation, while groping is nonconsensual touching, often with sexual intent. "Handsy" describes a person who frequently touches others in an unwanted or inappropriate way.

thisguy777 said:

my wife and I disagree as to the extent Christian woman like want foreplay.

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thisguy777 said:

you are correct. but, the question is about the extent of foreplay. how many women like what?

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I'm hearing you say that you and your wife disagree about what your wife wants. I'm pretty sure that she's the expert in what she wants, so listen to her.

I'm uncomfortable with collecting statistics to use as a weapon in the bedroom. If it turns out that 99% of women like X (for some X), but your wife doesn't like X, then that's what's true -- she doesn't like X, regardless of what all those other women are doing. She shouldn't feel like she has to pretend to like X just to conform to what other women like.

I could tell you what I like in the bedroom (except that it's none of anyone's business), but that's irrelevant to what your wife likes.