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Well, hello there.Hello everyone, I'm new here. I had no idea where to open this topic so please accept my sincere appologies if I chose the wrong part of the forum.
I need your help, opinion, thoughts.
I know a man who is divorced (no annulment in church, only in civil marriage). His wife cheated on him so he decided to divorce her... I'm single and I have never been married.
We are both Christians, we go to the same church. This is where we met.
The thing is I really love him, with all his flaws and strange behaviour. I love him for that HE IS. Simple as that. I love when he's around, when he smiles, I love listening to him and when he talks with me. Everything there is - I love it about him. This is a kind of pure love. I do not want sex with him. I know it's probably a weird thing to say in these times but when he's next to me, all that counts is that he's next to me, that we are next to eachother, talking. That we devote our time to eachother and that even though we only talk with eachother it's more than enough.
You know, I am a human, he's a human. I was thinking about what if we kissed. But I don't mean kissing with intention to get something more (e.g. sexual act) but I would like to show him as well how much I love him. I haven't talked with him about this but I was also wondering what should I do if he tries to kiss me to show me that he loves me. To be honest I wish he kissed me. All I want is this kiss to be pure, filled with our love, if it ever happens. I do not want it to be sinful. Will God see it as we see it?
I'm a Christian and I do not want to sin in this matter, I also do not want him to sin because of me. But if we kissed to express to eachother how much we love eachother would it still be a sin if it would be a pure kiss, filled with love? Keep in mind what I said above, he's divorced.
Please don't be harsh on me. I'm so confused and lost. I wish I could kiss him and express my love to him. But I also do not want to make him sin because of me.
referring to God the Father took multiple wives post Thanks for asking though
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This is the first thing I thought of when I read the original post:
Looks like he is well on his way to having a hundred kids so he can have a hundred friends and no one can say no to being his friend. ♥
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