Its Hard At Times When ......

[songz777]

Its hard when at times when you have no one your own spiritual level to share Jesus with, especially the opposite sex.
Its hard at times when you got no one just to mull around a town with and share the sights and sounds.
Its hard at times whe you havent got any close enough in your neck of the wood to talk to.
Its hard at times when you got no one to show affection to or buy a special rose or pressy for.
Its hard at times when "Valentines day" comes and you have no one to give a card to.
Its hard at times when you have a good day and there is no one to share your joys with.
Its hard at times whenyou see a nice gift you could buy for someone but no one to buy it for.
Its hard at times when you have no one to be romantic with or take to the sea to show her a sunset.
Its hard at times when you dont emails from any one because there isnt any one.
Its hard at times when the days pass and no one texts you on your mobile.
Its hard at times when you see children with their dads and you wonder if you will ever be a dad.
Its hard at times when you see so many outwardly nice woman and yet there is still none for you.
You begin to ask the Lord "Is there no one, LOrd not one person in my country UK who loves you in the same as I do, who feels and laughs like I do? Is there no one who likes some of the things I like Lord? Is their no one who will actually consider me as the best in their eyes?

My friends reading this, I am sure you have felt like this.
It is hard for us, yes it sucks big time but let us press on and like Ruth be busy in the daily things and in Gods time He in His mercy will shower blessings upon us, and we shall laugh like Sarah did at Gods great provision.
Bless you John

 

[Ginsu]

..eeehhhhhh, i wouldn't label it as "hard times" at all. It's just one of lifes little bonus'.

 

[Mother Vashti]

Verily, Ginsu.
Being single is bliss.

 

[hischildsindik]

It's hard to have to figure out what to do with the bat the comes in the house while you sleep at 2 a.m.
It's hard to know what to do about the car when it breaks down and you have no one to help or at least carpool with to get to work.
It's hard to sleep alone in a big bed when all you want is to cuddle close with thee someone while you sleep.
It's hard when you have no one to "fight" over the toilet lid or the way the toilet paper hangs off the spindle.

I agree John, it is hard! And there are many, many more hard things to live through being single. As I am sure there are many blessings... but there's a whole long thread for that!

I know Godis faithful. I know He has someone for those of us who have the deep burning desire for marriage and children, no matter our age. God is God and He is Love. God is thee Father who knows best and knows how to give good gifts for those of us who wait (hard as it is most of the time) on Him.

God bless you John and thanks again for sharing!
Cindy

 

[hischildsindik]

It's hard at times to go for a bike ride through a nature trail and see all kinds of little rabbits and deer at two different times and not have anyone to share that beauty, the beauty of God's awesome creation with.

It's hard at times to go to church picnics, where there are mostly couples and mostly couples that sit with couples and you find yourself sitting alone, not fitting in with the kids nor with their parents... who are your very own age or more so.

But I do thank God, that I was able to see those sweet rabbits and the deer who wondered at me as I rode by watching them in awe amongst some of God's most beautiful green.

And I do thank God for couples in the church who raise Godly children, children who love Him and see after Him.

I am thankful for you, and the ability to have someone to share with amongst a common ache and desire.
God bless.
Cindy

 

[remy]

i've been in situations worse than being single.

 

[heavenliejediofthebeach]

Its hard at times when you have no one to be romantic with or take to the sea to show her a sunset.

or him..that one hits me the hardest

Its hard at times when you dont emails from any one because there isnt any one.

yea....

Its hard at times when you see children with their dads and you wonder if you will ever be a dad.

or mom

Its hard at times when you see so many outwardly nice woman and yet there is still none for you.

once again or man..yeah its so very hard

 

[Caelum]

Indeed, however;

Its hard at times when you have someone demanding attention 24/7...
Its hard at times when you have to spend your entire paycheck to keep that special someone entertained
Its hard at times when they want you to meet all their snobby friends who shake your hand and forget your name
Its hard at times when they get mad for no reason and you spend the entire car ride home looking out the window wondering why 7-11 has locks and there's braile on drive-up ATMs
Its hard at times when you're trying to cook jiffy pop in the morning and you jump 10 feet into the air because your significant other screamed your name because she found a hair in her toothbrush
Its hard at times when, ok im done I had my fun.. .
Adieu