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This guy I met at a friend's party is a total gym junkie, and so am I. We would respond to each other's workout photos on Facebook and would support each other's advice to our mutual friends who are trying to lose weight. One time, on Facebook, after complimenting me for my advice to a friend, he asked me to go to the gym with him, as he could sure use a spotter. Now, our memberships are at DIFFERENT gyms so if I were to go with him, I'd have to pay a drop in fee. I'm telling you this in case this makes a difference. It's not like we both happen to go to the same gym. He actually wants to invite me to HIS gym. Does that make it a date?
And just so you know, the first time we met, I can't say we hit it off completely. We had different opinions about ellipticals for one thing. Also there was a bit of a competition between us as we were both trying to recruit our mutual friends to our separate gyms and I had been helping out one mutual friend in particular but he wanted to take over in helping out this person. Now we don't "compete" anymore but try to include each other when we invite our mutual friends (but because of schedule we haven't worked out together yet). So my other question is, would a typical guy ever feel that a girl is his competitor in fitness? I never claimed to be as strong as a guy, but I've made claims that I push myself just as hard. He didn't believe me at first (when we first met) but I think he's starting to now because I've flexed in front of him and he has now seen me in tank tops. (We haven't worked out together but I met up with our friends after my workouts and I was still in my tanks.) So other than telling me whether he's trying to ask me out, do you think he still sees me as a competitor in front of our friends? Like I indicated, the first time we met we were like "competitors". You know what they say, that first impression lasts for a lifetime. However, it's been like two months now and we've been supporting each other and trying to include each other when training friends (but we're still waiting for that day when we can actually go together). He sometimes would text me about his workouts too and ask about mine. On Facebook, he specifically asked me to join him at HIS gym as he could use a spotter. So does he want a fitness motivator, competitor and/or girlfriend?
And just so you know, the first time we met, I can't say we hit it off completely. We had different opinions about ellipticals for one thing. Also there was a bit of a competition between us as we were both trying to recruit our mutual friends to our separate gyms and I had been helping out one mutual friend in particular but he wanted to take over in helping out this person. Now we don't "compete" anymore but try to include each other when we invite our mutual friends (but because of schedule we haven't worked out together yet). So my other question is, would a typical guy ever feel that a girl is his competitor in fitness? I never claimed to be as strong as a guy, but I've made claims that I push myself just as hard. He didn't believe me at first (when we first met) but I think he's starting to now because I've flexed in front of him and he has now seen me in tank tops. (We haven't worked out together but I met up with our friends after my workouts and I was still in my tanks.) So other than telling me whether he's trying to ask me out, do you think he still sees me as a competitor in front of our friends? Like I indicated, the first time we met we were like "competitors". You know what they say, that first impression lasts for a lifetime. However, it's been like two months now and we've been supporting each other and trying to include each other when training friends (but we're still waiting for that day when we can actually go together). He sometimes would text me about his workouts too and ask about mine. On Facebook, he specifically asked me to join him at HIS gym as he could use a spotter. So does he want a fitness motivator, competitor and/or girlfriend?
