Is the Marriage Bed Undefiled?

Sammy-San

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That is one person's opinion.

Do you have any concept of the gravity of the Acts 15 decision?

Why do you believe the menstruation laws in Leviticus 18 aren't universal like the incest and homosexuality?

Leviticus 18 doesn't mention cousins having relations as sinful, but I don't have bibical knowledge on this issue.
 
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Why do you believe the menstruation laws in Leviticus 18 aren't universal like the incest and homosexuality?
Who said I don't? The 4 prohibitions of Acts 15 includes "fornication," which is the english they used to translate "inappropriate contentia." From my study and prayer about this word, I would take it to mean (as used by the diaspora Jewish community in Greece) to be anything that violated Torah sexual commands - including sex during menses. That would make it universal as well.
 
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Is it acceptable to God for a husband and wife to have sex while the wife is menstruating / having her period?

 
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Is that bibical or another ECF type doctrine?

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Is that bibical or another ECF type doctrine?
Not having sex during menses is biblical:

Leviticus 15:19 “‘When a woman has her regular flow of blood, the impurity of her monthly period will last seven days, and anyone who touches her will be unclean till evening.
24 “‘If a man has sexual relations with her and her monthly flow touches him, he will be unclean for seven days; any bed he lies on will be unclean.
25 “‘When she is cleansed from her discharge, she must count off seven days, and after that she will be ceremonially clean.
 
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Gotquestions.org says it was Israel law.
 
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Wasn't that just Old Testament laws about purity and not universal?
 
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What does being united by God mean then? I am confused.
 
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How is carnal and fleshly intimacy spiritual? That sounds pagan.
 
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What does being united by God mean then? I am confused.
They become one flesh.
Science is only now realizing how accurate this could be.

Scientific studies of other species have demonstrated that the DNA of the first male a female ever mated with, can end up in her brain... and stay there for the rest of her life.

In fact, it is part of the scientific record that a mare bred first to a zebra, and bearing a half-zebra, half-horse, may, even though never bred to a zebra again, bear offspring with striped legs. Zebra stripes, on a colt whose parents are both horses. The only way that can happen, is if the sperm of the male does more than simply impregnate and then die. His DNA invades her DNA.

This may be one reason couples who celebrate their 50th anniversary look more alike when old, then they did when young.

And it puts a whole new light on possibly why God put such a premium on virginity, for brides.
 
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Fornicators become one flesh too, a terrible sin. You aren't explain what united by God means.
 
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Fornicators become one flesh too, a terrible sin. You aren't explain what united by God means.
It's very simple.

1 Corinthians 6:16 "What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh."

Therefore, God created the "joining together as one flesh" mechanism when he made Adam and Eve.
And by that mechanism, he joins together every man and woman who have sex.

And that's how God even designed the joining that happens when a man visits a harlot.

This passage says he becomes "one flesh" with her.
The same words used for marriage.
it happens with harlots.

And yes, it's a sin.
Because it's a twisting of creation. It's taking something God created for one purpose, and using it for something else, in a destructive way.

And that's why any sin, is sin. It's the misuse and abuse of God's creation.
It's confusing what God created.

And that's the whole point of 1 Corinthians 11:3-15. God wants women to be feminine. He wants men to be masculine. Not just in acknowledging their body parts, but in the way one appears in dress and hairstyle. It's about honoring our Creator.
 
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Do you believe this comment is unbibical?

Clothes, Makeup & Jewelry: Guidance for Christian Women

 
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What does united under God mean-it isn't spirits united or sexually united, based on what you've said.
 
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I believe it is entirely biblical.
God said men must not wear women's clothing, and a woman must not wear that which pertains to a man. Clothing is defined by culture, just as "marriage" is.
Jesus honored the wedding feast of his culture, even though it was not defined by Moses' Law. And sex outside of what a culture defines as a marriage, is sin.
Even so with clothing.
However, in modern America, I do not think pants on women is seen as "men's clothing" anymore.
Pants are not necessarily masculine, exclusively.
Sometimes, they are simply more modest, for the activity.

However, the distinction between masculine and feminine clothing is being eroded constantly. It started in the 1920's, with the flat, boyish body-type reflected in women's fashion. And at the same time, women began wearing pants. But, anymore, women wear pants, and it is not seen as masculine. Cultures change over time. At this time, the one article which is seen as distinctively masculine, is a necktie. Think about it. Women who wear a necktie are seen as crossing the gender-line, in clothing style.

But a dress on a man is seen as feminine. At least for now, in America. In Europe, it's becoming quite normal to see a man wearing a feminine-style skirt. So we can expect the same to come to America. It always does.

For myself, I prefer to choose to wear what is seen as ultra-feminine, just to honor my Creator. It may be okay for women to wear pants, but for myself, I stick to dresses. Just because I love and honor my Creator.
 
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