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Is my attitude wrong

SamsungUser

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Hi. I just find it stupid when people say i will die alone. I was scared before but when i put my faith in jesus everything changed and i care more about the other life. Because if i dont follow and obey him you end in hell which is a second death. I know God has said that it is not good for a man to be alone but i dont care that much if ill get married or not . What do you think. Am i wrong guys?

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J. Elias

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While God said it wasn't good for Adam to be alone, Paul the Apostle advises us to not give in marriage. (1 Cor 7:25-40. Note Paul wasn't saying God said we had to abstain, Paul says he was just offering his own advice) The reason Paul gives is because those who marry have a duty to their spouse, whereas one who is unmarried can commit fully to the Lord. So, if you feel no inclination to marry, then all the more you can serve the Lord! No shame in that at all!
 
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