"Honestly, I doubt anyone is really looking for my nudie pics that hard, and if they are, well, shoot I'm downright flattered. Who cares if other people see you having sex or naked?"
*Your comment above(which I quoted) got me to thinking about your post.
While you and your wife may think there's nothing wrong with being the stars of your own inappropriate content supply.
I see folly in your thinking.
Consider this...Samson found that having what he wanted (Delilah) would
eventually lead to vexation and ruin.
Delilah became a real stumbling block.
There's little praise for the life Samson lead. He spent his time being a "good ol boy" defiling himself with a prostitute, telling riddles and dishonoring his faith etc.
Your comment(I posted it above)... you both should care, because sex in marriage is not to be defiled or mistreated. Nor is it something for others to view...it's for you and your wife to enjoy.
Your thoughts speak volumes, be careful in your thinking--so you don't cheapen the value of marital intimacy.
Protect your marital intimacy from any risk of exploitation.
If you are away so much from your wife, perhaps you should seek ways to curb
that.
Also, do you have a problem with inappropriate content?
If this is a problem, having your own home sex videos or photos(of yourself & your wife) will not help the matter...it keeps "feeding the fire".