IS it just a front?

[MissAmy]

Hi,
I'm asking for advice, and from people who know best on this issue. My ex and I were dating for 3 months and really liked each other but he struggled greatly with his sexuality. He's been a non Christian for about 10 years (raised and they fell away from) and thus has been having sex for most of those. He told me he needs to not be around me because of the temptation...is this true? I guess it's like a smoker can't be around cigarettes when they're trying to quit...or am I being jerked around.
Could someone please give me some guidance in this area?
Thank you!
Amy

 

[Johnnz]

He wants to be free to have sex and has decided against following God. He will find it very difficult to have you there and not want sex with you. I imagine you are the one holding out. Also he is used to having new partners. he may have already established a pattern that will persist longer than any one relationship.

What sort of guy are you really wanting to be together with?

John
NZ