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I had to ask, since most Christians say that it is.
Why do they say this, then?
I've literally never met a Christian who said that, so by most Christians, I'm guessing you mean foaming at the mouth ultraconservative fringe crazy.
Yes, the ones who dub themselves "True Christians" (implying everyone else is false and going to hell, I assume). The ones who decry hand holding, Pokemon and anything secular. I know people like this, so they're not just an internet meme anymore.
Then stop hanging out with the super conservative fringe christian crowds and join a mainstream denomination with normal, sane people.