She and I are Married but she recently took up prostitution to support of 4 children after I lost my job due to the anti-Christian Conservatives
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Is having sex with a hooker a sin?
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But she's my wife and we believe doing this to save our children is necessary otherwise we would be evicted and my children may lose faith in the lord? I'm really stressed please help!
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Do you not realize that the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit? He has espoused us to one husband, Christ. Shall we take that and join it to someone else other than our spouse? Do you and your wife not realize that the souls of those she sells herself to will be held accountable for their sins with her?
Listen, I am not condemning you, but if this is the path you will take now when things get tough now, what happens when the antichrist arrives and says take this mark and eat, and buy and sell, and hold a job, or else?
Jesus loved the prostitutes and did not condemn the woman caught in adultery, but He said immediatly afterwards for her to sin no more. I suspect that is what you need to hear, whether or not you like the advice.
I also found it interesting that it was your concern as to whether or not it was sin for you to sleep with her, not whether or not she was condemning herself by her own sin, or causing others to fall by tempting them. You may want to look deeper into why you wrote it as you did....I suspect there is more there than meets the eye.
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Not sure what country you are from, but I am not aware of any American or European modern conservative group being "anti-Christian"...
Also, we are to forgive people their debts and turn the other cheek.
Turning to prostitution, of course, is an extremely serious sin.
There is always another way.
Rarely do people lose their jobs because of another political party.
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There is always another way.
Even if it meant living in a homeless shelter until you got on your feet.
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Thir7ySev3n
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(If you are not just a troll, then...)
Keep in mind as you read this, I am NOT judging you.
God will not bless sin, for whatever reason. It is like the robinhood philosophy, stealing from the rich to give to the poor, it is disguising the purposful breaking of God's Law by the fact that the poor are reaping the rewards. The ends do not justify the means in God's Law, and the cost to preserve the physical in this case will be followed by a "hidden cost" that you will not be able to pay when this life is over. The fact that you are even in this predicament shows a lack of faith on your part, for Jesus said,
"So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:31-33)
God can not bless your situation when you respond to it with sin, but if you repent and turn away He will surely keep His promise He made to you and all His saints and will bless you infinitely more than prostitution ever could, both in this world and the next. You must realise that God loves you and wants to care for you and your family but He can't do that if you don't let Him. You must believe that He loves you and have faith that He will keep His promises to you, for "God is not a man, that he should lie, nor a son of man, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?" (Numbers 23:19)
I do not think I need say more. If you want proof that prostitution is wrong all you need to do is open your Bible to pretty much any page, and Proverbs specifically speaks alot about it and its cost. Please repent of your sin and put your trust in God for He will surely care for you and your family.
God bless you and I will be praying for you.
(I am seriously convinced this guys a troll but I will give him the benefit of the doubt since surprisingly I have encountered real Christians with totally unreal problems like these)
Keep in mind as you read this, I am NOT judging you.
God will not bless sin, for whatever reason. It is like the robinhood philosophy, stealing from the rich to give to the poor, it is disguising the purposful breaking of God's Law by the fact that the poor are reaping the rewards. The ends do not justify the means in God's Law, and the cost to preserve the physical in this case will be followed by a "hidden cost" that you will not be able to pay when this life is over. The fact that you are even in this predicament shows a lack of faith on your part, for Jesus said,
"So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:31-33)
God can not bless your situation when you respond to it with sin, but if you repent and turn away He will surely keep His promise He made to you and all His saints and will bless you infinitely more than prostitution ever could, both in this world and the next. You must realise that God loves you and wants to care for you and your family but He can't do that if you don't let Him. You must believe that He loves you and have faith that He will keep His promises to you, for "God is not a man, that he should lie, nor a son of man, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?" (Numbers 23:19)
I do not think I need say more. If you want proof that prostitution is wrong all you need to do is open your Bible to pretty much any page, and Proverbs specifically speaks alot about it and its cost. Please repent of your sin and put your trust in God for He will surely care for you and your family.
God bless you and I will be praying for you.
(I am seriously convinced this guys a troll but I will give him the benefit of the doubt since surprisingly I have encountered real Christians with totally unreal problems like these)
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Doesn't matter if he is not really telling the truth about being in this position or not. He is still making the argument and believes the argument makes sense... unless he is testing something, in which case, he doesn't get an answer which is useful to him. In fact, it would be misleading. Maybe!
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That's a truly horrible dilemma. But doing something as wrong as that is never what God intends for you both. Surely your church an suggest something better and care for you and your family in some way?
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AmeriLovesJesus
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There is always something better that you can do.. Prostitution should never even be left option. I agree with other posters. Look to your church or any help. Please.
Praying for you.
Praying for you.
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Your faith in GOD needs to be stronger than this. How can you allow another man to lay with your wife. It is a sin of course it is for you and your wife.
She needs to stop what she is doing immediately. God will bless you, you just have to believe that. Even, like someone else said you have to take shelter with your family. Sometimes we have to start at the bottom to get to the top and you will reach the top. Please for your sake and your families stop your wife doing this.
How can you think that sleeping with your wife is a sin because you have allowed her to sleep with other men. I think you know that it is a sin both ways. There is already a cry for help because you have posted on here, thats your first step forward.
I pray that you will think about this and go to God. God is the only way. Turn to Him, He is waiting for you.
She needs to stop what she is doing immediately. God will bless you, you just have to believe that. Even, like someone else said you have to take shelter with your family. Sometimes we have to start at the bottom to get to the top and you will reach the top. Please for your sake and your families stop your wife doing this.
How can you think that sleeping with your wife is a sin because you have allowed her to sleep with other men. I think you know that it is a sin both ways. There is already a cry for help because you have posted on here, thats your first step forward.
I pray that you will think about this and go to God. God is the only way. Turn to Him, He is waiting for you.
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You should read proverbs it has a lot on prostitution and adultery. Then there is also 1 Corinthian 7. But it is most-definitely a sin. Once you are married you are binded together with your husband/wife. Having sexual relation with someone other then your spouse is adultery. And the 7th one down on the Tenth Commandments is "Do not commit adultery."
The church is suppose to help the community and other things, so the church should help you. And I am sure there is other jobs ways to get out of this mess. And I am nor sure where you live but there is things like unemployment benefits, food stamps, other things. (I don't have to support a family so I don't know much programs but I know there is some out there)
The church is suppose to help the community and other things, so the church should help you. And I am sure there is other jobs ways to get out of this mess. And I am nor sure where you live but there is things like unemployment benefits, food stamps, other things. (I don't have to support a family so I don't know much programs but I know there is some out there)
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Sounds like a phony post. Don't mock the Father or the Act of Jesus.
If this is true, I would throw myself at the Foot of the Father and ask for his
Help. do not seek Creation's advise at this time. That's why there are mill stones.
If this is true, I would throw myself at the Foot of the Father and ask for his
Help. do not seek Creation's advise at this time. That's why there are mill stones.
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There is good news and bad news on this one.
The good news; sleeping with your wife is not a sin.
The bad news; being a pimp is.
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Please stop your wife from prostituting her self, even if it is to support your family. There are a lot of programs at the DHS that will help your family make it threw these hard times. The emotional damage that is being inflicted upon her will last a life time. It will destroy your marriage along with your wifes self-esteem. Also, it is illegal and how will your 4 child get along if she has to go to jail. 
i will pray for you!
i will pray for you!
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DavinMochrie
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In my humble opinion, Conservatism has not and never has meant 'Christian'. Christianity in the west is just the 'default' religion that conservatives have.
Most likely he comes from either China or some other Asian Country. Perhaps a Muslim Majority.
Prostitution is fornication and a sin.
To the OP. I pray your family will find enough income so your wife can stop this.
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