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This. Your sex-life or lack thereof, are no-one's business but your own.
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I just don't make a huge production out of it. Some folks will tell everyone and his dog they are virgins.
That right there ^. It's no one else's buisness. It's your choice. If anyone makes fun of you for something that is none of their buisness it's very tacky of them.There's nothing to be embarrassed about.It's good you're making your own decision about your sexuality. And if that means waiting until marriage that's your business.
if it makes you feel any better, I'm embarrassed to not be a virgin...
It's alright, dude....it happens. You'll be okay, don't listen to those legalistic fundies.if it makes you feel any better, I'm embarrassed to not be a virgin...
you're a repentant Christian, yes?Indeed. I afraid I'll meet a great woman and she won't accept me for me. And she would be in the right to turn me down for it. It doesn't break me down anymore like it used to, but I'll think about that every now and then.
This is my biggest fear. Meeting a wonderful man, him finding out about my past then wanting nothing to do with me...
This is my biggest fear. Meeting a wonderful man, him finding out about my past then wanting nothing to do with me...
I'm beginning to wonder if that is the same issue I have with dating so-called "Christian" women. Even as a pastor I wasn't seen as an equal or God forbid a superior to these women. Just never really got the light of day. So where did I turn? Beautiful women who weren't as Christian.This is my biggest fear. Meeting a wonderful man, him finding out about my past then wanting nothing to do with me...
MARY IS RIGHT, THEN YOU HAVE NOT MEET A WONDERFUL MAN.
Sorry for the cap locks.
He should know what you have done, and where you are in your life, and even the mistakes that you have made in the past. I am sure he has his own shortcomings, so judgement should never beginning in that regard.
i don't think being a virgin or not being a virgin is anything to be embarrassed about personally, or proud of. who a person is, is so much more than what their v-card status is.
I know in this day and age its considered strange to reach a certain age and to still be a virgin. but really who cares? some people might make fun of virgins, but to me that reflects more on the people making the jokes than on the virgins. I think its actually kind of sad to only be able to view sex as such a light topic to the point that you think everyone should be doing it.
as for non-virgins, in Christ all sins are washed away. People may still look down their noses at non-virgins, but thankfully what they think doesn't matter. what God thinks does, so long as we aim to live our lives for Him, thats the important thing.
so yeah... i'm not really worried about someone else's virginity or lack thereof. None of my business anyhow.
That's very true... I'm not saying that the men I have met are like that, I never have been rejected for my past, I'm just saying it's a fear. Even if it's not a legitimate fear.then you will not have met a wonderful man...
it really hurts my heart to see you all feeling like this...I mean, I can imagine it's difficult to not feel like this...but it just really hurts my heart that there is any reason you would even need to
ooooo I might end up ranting if I go on
Yes. All the time.I'm 28 and I have to be honest, there are times when I'm embrassed to still be a virgin at this age. I know that according to the bible I'm doing what's right by waiting for marriage, but what if I never get married. The thought of dying a virgin bothers me!! Does anyone else feel this way?
I have the opposite fear; that I'll meet someone who will be turned off by the fact that I'm sexually inexperienced.This is my biggest fear. Meeting a wonderful man, him finding out about my past then wanting nothing to do with me...
Going to be a bit frank here.....all you really have to do is lie down.I have the opposite fear; that I'll meet someone who will be turned off by the fact that I'm sexually inexperienced.
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