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I think you misunderstood the whole sin in christian meanings. All sin lead to Satan, to hell. Why would God make a difference in wages of sin if the penalty is the same?I am not a Christian and I do not believe in sin. However, that being said, I can't imagine that anyone could believe all sin in the same in the eyes of God. I mean, do you honestly think that taking God's name in vain is just as bad as murdering someone? And some Christians say atheists are immoral...
LCMS.org said:7. We furthermore teach that sin came into the world by the fall of the first man, as described [sic] Gen. 3. By this Fall not only he himself, but also his natural offspring have lost the original knowledge, righteousness, and holiness, and thus all men are sinners already by birth, dead in sins, inclined to all evil, and subject to the wrath of God, Rom. 5:12, 18; Eph. 2:1-3. We teach also that men are unable, through any efforts of their own or by the aid of "culture and science," to reconcile themselves to God and thus conquer death and damnation.
silverflare said:Why? Because some sins (like taking the name of God in vain) don't affect anyone but God and the individual committing the sin. Other sins, like murdering, affect another individual as well. Is God so selfish as to judge both acts equally? So...
Let's say there's three people. Persons one and two have spent their whole lives helping people, and are good Christians. They are best friends and care deeply for each other. Person three is a heartless criminal who has killed many people in the past. So person three tries to rob persons one and two and in the process fatally shoots person one. Person two screams out, "God******! You killed him, how could you be so cruel?" so person three fatally shoots person two as well. Just then, a police officer arrives and fatally shoots person three. All three people died instantly. According to your concept of sin, person one would go to heaven. Person two and three would both suffer the same punishment and go to hell.
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This is a valid question. The interesting thing about Christianity is the through Jesus, all sins are forgiven. This means no matter what sins you may have committed, be it turning away from God for a period for time or having sex out of marriage, you will be forgiven and granted eternal life. But, this doesn't mean you will not be held accountable for your actions at Judgement. At this time, you will be judged based on your works, not your sins (which are forgiven). So, that murderer who turned to Jesus will be held accountable for his actions, just as the unfaithful husband will be held accountable for his infidelity. The positive actions you do will also be taken in account, giving to charity, turning people to Christ, etc.Jodi_99 said:i have always been told that all sin is seen the same in God's eyes. Can this be found anywhere in the Bible?
Hi there!silverflare said:I apologize, Caelum, I was not aware. Usually when I try to post in a place where I apparently shouldn't be posting, it will automatically not let me post there. I will no longer post in this section.
Hi there!Jodi_99 said:i have always been told that all sin is seen the same in God's eyes. Can this be found anywhere in the Bible?
Although it's not for you to judge her, we as Christians are called to stand for what is right and speak against what is wrong. By all means, you, as a friend, should be ministering to her in an attempt to steer her towards behavior that is in line with the will of God. Sinful behavior is certainly not God's will.Jodi_99 said:thanks to everyone who replied. it helped. part of the reason i was wondering is because one of my friends does things that i would consider immoral, but thats only from my stand point, i obviously have no authority to decide whats not right for her to do. She is very open with the things that she does do and many people judge her for it. I'm not saying its right, but i did want to know if it was more wrong than anything anyone else does. Thanks again
i agree with what you are saying.. but i wonder, if i should be trying to help her with her sinful behavior, what about everyone elses.. including my own? to me, a few of the things she portakes in are worse than what i would do, but in the same sense there are things i do that i consider worse than what she does. (once again these are based on what i beleive) how do i know that i have the right to tell her what she is doing wrong when if all sin the same i am doing different things that are equally wrong even though it isn't the common beleif?pressingon said:Although it's not for you to judge her, we as Christians are called to stand for what is right and speak against what is wrong. By all means, you, as a friend, should be ministering to her in an attempt to steer her towards behavior that is in line with the will of God. Sinful behavior is certainly not God's will.
If she's saved, it's even more important for you to steer her towards truth, as the example she sets presents a false witness as to what Christianity is about. Hypocritical Christians (those who don't live as Christ would have them to, yet profess to faith) are a major excuse unsaved give for continuing in sin.
Jodi_99 said:i agree with what you are saying.. but i wonder, if i should be trying to help her with her sinful behavior, what about everyone elses.. including my own? to me, a few of the things she portakes in are worse than what i would do, but in the same sense there are things i do that i consider worse than what she does. (once again these are based on what i beleive) how do i know that i have the right to tell her what she is doing wrong when if all sin the same i am doing different things that are equally wrong even though it isn't the common beleif?
even knowing that i do things wrong too, i have sublty tried to steer her towards what is right in this particular situation, if i were to come right out and say that she shouldn't be sleeping with three guys in one night, i beleive she would totally push me away or simply say she doesn't care. i have seen her do it with other people and i dont beleive totally losing her friendship is going to help her get on the right path ifyaknowwuttamean. I'm waiting for a time that i will be able to help her without being totally pushed away by her. i wouldn't want to offend her even tho she needs it.
I wouldn't say you have a "right" to tell her what she's doing wrong.... but you do have a responsibility as a friend and fellow Christian (if she is a Christian, that's not crystal clear to me). Get over the fact that you're not perfect... we're all sinners! God has put a burden on your heart for your friend, one that is not to be ignored. Any doubts you may have about helping her are most likely NOT from God.Jodi_99 said:i agree with what you are saying.. but i wonder, if i should be trying to help her with her sinful behavior, what about everyone elses.. including my own? to me, a few of the things she portakes in are worse than what i would do, but in the same sense there are things i do that i consider worse than what she does. (once again these are based on what i beleive) how do i know that i have the right to tell her what she is doing wrong when if all sin the same i am doing different things that are equally wrong even though it isn't the common beleif?
You're absolutely right that you need to be careful how to help. Sometimes, with best intentions, we try to go things on our own to help people we care about, and actually end up doing more hurt than good. Above all, pray for your friend... pray for God's guidance as to how to help... ask Him to show you what to do. God answers prayer!Jodi_99 said:even knowing that i do things wrong too, i have sublty tried to steer her towards what is right in this particular situation, if i were to come right out and say that she shouldn't be sleeping with three guys in one night, i beleive she would totally push me away or simply say she doesn't care. i have seen her do it with other people and i dont beleive totally losing her friendship is going to help her get on the right path ifyaknowwuttamean. I'm waiting for a time that i will be able to help her without being totally pushed away by her. i wouldn't want to offend her even tho she needs it.