Im very sorry for your situation sister.As the woman left by her husband for the new second wife; did any of you stop to think that your husband's may not have told you the truth about his ex?
My ex was abusive physically, mentally, and sexually. He also abused our 2 children. He would not seek counseling. I started drinking to cope with the abuse and he left me because of the drinking. I couldn't get help for the drinking because the children would have been with him alone.
I know he has told this "christian" woman many lies about me and not the whole truth about himself. I have to talk with him often because of our children. They are 16 and 19 and very upset that their Dad was mean and hateful and has abandoned us all to "move on".
If you think about the ex, try praying for her and if she has the children; for them as well. She is struggling spiritually, financially, and physically. God Bless!
Im very sorry for your situation sister.
I would ask you to not allow your own experiences with your guilty ex husband to cause you to wrongly judge those who are guiltless.
I would like to apologize to everyone. I read the question and responded to the thread. I shouldn't have as I am not remarried and have no intentions of ever being hurt like this again.um...judgement? Since when is asking a question that expresses a different point of view judging?
So, does one need to worry if the wife was NOT the one who asked for the divorce? Just curious about the difference.Wow - now I know how my ex-husband's live-in (and later wife) felt about me all those years! My ex and I had the 2 children together, and remained close even after the divorce that I asked for and got after quite a struggle.
Even though my ex still held a special love for me in his heart right up until he died 2 years ago, he was respectful enough to not ask for sex or anything like that once I remarried 2 months after our divorce was final.
I don't think you have a thing to worry about. Especially since it was the wife who asked for the divorce in the first place!
Hi TW, I know exactly how you feel. But I do have a question. Why do you guys, or your hubby, have to see this woman so often? No way could I tolerate that. We moved halfway across the country so we wouldn't have to see her and also to start our own life out together.
I have been married for four years. My husbands ex wife has always been a thorn in my side. I thought I had gotten my contempt for her under some type of control but I was wrong. Now I find it spreading to her kids (her daughter from a previous relationship and my husbands daughter). I find myself looking for the ex in the kids. Holding their mother against them.
My husband has never given me any reason to doubt him. He was cheated on by his ex and I was cheated on 2 previous husbands. I am afraid of getting hurt and cheated on again.
I am looking for advice, quotes from the bible....anything to help me. It is ruining my marriage and I don't want to lose the best thing that has ever happened to me.
He and his ex have one child together and we have none. I feel they have that special connection a child brings and I will never have that with him.
I have been married for four years. My husbands ex wife has always been a thorn in my side. I thought I had gotten my contempt for her under some type of control but I was wrong. Now I find it spreading to her kids (her daughter from a previous relationship and my husbands daughter). I find myself looking for the ex in the kids. Holding their mother against them.
My husband has never given me any reason to doubt him. He was cheated on by his ex and I was cheated on 2 previous husbands. I am afraid of getting hurt and cheated on again.
I am looking for advice, quotes from the bible....anything to help me. It is ruining my marriage and I don't want to lose the best thing that has ever happened to me.
He and his ex have one child together and we have none. I feel they have that special connection a child brings and I will never have that with him.
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