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According to Calvinism a man is predesignated before the foundation of the world to be saved or damned. Then God saves him, then he hears the gospel and then trust on Christ. But what happens if he never hears the gospel and trust Christ, does he still go to heaven? The question came up about a baby who died at 8 months old. If that baby was elected does he go to heaven or hell? Someone ask me this at church and I did not have an answer. I had never thought about it before.
 

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Nobody goes to hell or heaven because they were NOT one of the elect, but they go to hell because they sinned. God is not the author of sin, and neither does He tempt anyone to sin (James 1:13). Man is responsible for his sins.

2 Samuel 12:23 says "But now he has died; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me." - David was sure that he will one day see his child in heaven, he was sure that his child went there.
 
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Is the what a Calvinist teaches? I am trying to find out what a Calvinist believes. I know Calvinism teaches that by Gods eternal decree of election and reprobation, some are elect to go to heaven, and some are damned. If this baby was one of the elect, does he go to heaven even though he has not trusted on Christ? If he was not one of the elect, is he in hell?
 
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I've heard Tim Conway say the things I've posted in my first paragraph, and I've heard John Piper and John MacArthur say the things I've posted in my second paragraph. All three of them consider themselves to be Calvinists.
 
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2 things you need to consider. First election isn't salvation it is unto salvation. God not only ordained who would be saved but also ordained that they should be saved through faith in Christ by the preaching of the Gospel. The elect are saved by, in and through the person and work of Christ alone.

Second is that the Scriptures are silent on the salvation of infants. It never definitely says that they are saved or that they aren't. I do know that whatever God does is right and good so I can honestly hope that infants who die in infancy are saved but we cannot say for sure either way. Where the Scriptures are silent we ought to be silent.
 
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Most Calvinists have taught that those dying in infancy are saved. (This doesn't mean that all infants are saved. Those who will end up damned are not of the elect and weren't even as infants. Thus the statement is that all those who die in infancy are saved, not that all infants are saved.)

In Calvinism the distinction between those who are saved and those who are not is entirely up to God. In an adult, the activity of the Holy Spirit will show itself in faith, but in an infant it may not.

I think it's clear that logically infants can be saved. The question is whether they actually are. This is somewhat speculative. It involves passages such as Mat 19:14 and 1 Cor 7:14. Many would probably concede that these passages aren't enough to prove that all those who die in infancy are saved, but most Calvinists would say that they make it probable.
 
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I have a question for any more traditional Calvinists who are reading this thread. I believe I've given the usual Calvinist answer in post 6. But it seems to me that there's an exegetical problem. If passages like Mat 19:14 and 1 Cor 7:14 actually support this idea, then it seems to me that they would support the idea that all infants are saved. Not just a few elect ones, but all. After all, the children in Mat 19:14 are alive, and there's no reason to expect that they will die in infancy.

But the idea that all infants are saved would present a problem. In Reformed theology, one can only be saved through regeneration. But as far as I know, Calvinism normally considers regeneration to happen only to the elect. I'm not aware of any concept that one can be regenerated and then fall away. That would seem to contradict perseverance of the saints.

That why I said in post 6 that the Calvinist position is not that all infants are saved, only that those who die in infancy are. There's no logical problem with this position, but I doubt that the Biblical passages brought forward to support it actually do. I think if anything they would support salvation of all infants. I don't have any specific alternative to suggest.
 
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As far as the 1Cor. 7 passage goes the Presbyterian, those who hold to Covenant Theology and baptism in the use of infant baptism, will use this as an argument for such a view. Since I do not, I understand it to mean that the unbelieving husband/wife and children are legitimate.

The Matt. passage is simply our Master teaching us that we are to be as children in faith.

I don't think either passage in its context has any application to whether infants are saved.
 
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i personally don't believe there's enough biblical confirmation to give an answer one way or another.
Is God obliged to save every infant that dies? Definitely not.
Can He saved every infant? Of course, salvation is by free grace, whether
infant or adult.
Is the abortion industry the greatest heaven filling scheme devised by man?
 
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Personally, I'm on the side of saying that it is more likely than not infants are not saved:

For God has shut up all in disobedience (except babies)

 
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1 COr 7:14, unless it allows unbelieving spouses to be saved (clue it doesn't) has nothing to do with infants being saved.
 
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I believe you got it right in post #12. It's just a lot of traditional argumentative baggage attached to this passage and it takes time to unwrap it.

I understand, but then the link tries to offer an interpretation that is supposedly correct, but I honestly don't understand it. I take the passage to mean that the family is blessed by association with a Christian, but not "saved" by such an association.
 
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The one critical commentary I have on 1 Cor (Thiselton) agrees with you, and so does Calvin. Thiselton's parting comment on the verse:

'Commonsense exegesis comes from Calvin: “The godliness of the one does more to ‘sanctify’ the marriage than the ungodliness of the other to make it unclean. Accordingly a believer can live with an unbeliever [‘not in the contracting of marriages but in maintaining those already entered into’] with a clear conscience.”'

Remember that the question is not salvation, but whether the Christian spouse can remain in the marriage. Paul's answer is yes. The marriage is still blessed. Thiselton says (after lots of complex linguistic analysis) that this is in part because Paul has confidence that the Christian spouse will set the tone more than the non-Christian one, as long as the non-Christian agrees to continue.

As to the child, I would argue that growing up in a Christian home is a very significant means of grace. But that certainly doesn't overrule the need for the child to meet normal criteria for salvation (whatever your soteriology says they are).
 
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Thanks a lot. I did not gather that this was the explanation from JM's link, did you read it and if so, understand it?
 
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Thanks a lot. I did not gather that this was the explanation from JM's link, did you read it and if so, understand it?

Unfortunately the web page is fairly complex, partly because it’s adding questions of infant baptism in. This posting is going to be even worse, because I’m going to juggle the web page, Calvin, and Thiselton’s commentary.

The primary argument that the web page focuses on seems to be that the holiness of the spouse (or the marriage?) is by analogy with that of the child. That is, it’s not that the child’s holiness depends upon the holiness of the marriage, but that they are analogous.

Thiselton agrees with this, seeing the argument as a fortiori. Calvin disagrees, paraphrasing the argument as “If your marriage were impure, then the children that are the fruit of it would be impure; but they are holy; hence the marriage also is holy. As, then, the ungodliness of one of the parents does not hinder the children that are born from being holy, so neither does it hinder the marriage from being pure.”

Both, however, see the holiness as basically relational, i.e. it’s the marriage that is holy, not that the person is automatically saved. However Calvin makes what I think is a fairly remarkable statement about the children. He believes that being within the covenant, the curse of original sin is by God’s grace removed from them, as it was from Abraham’s progeny. I find this interesting in light of previous discussions about regeneration. He seems to see what I would have called regeneration as a consequence of membership in the covenant, with no requirement of personal faith or individual election. You might want to look up Calvin’s commentary on 1 Cor (e.g. at ccel.org) and see if you agree with this.

Calvin then argues “if the children of believers are exempted from the common lot of mankind, so as to be set apart to the Lord, why should we keep them back from the sign?” Because he’s not using an argument by analogy, he isn’t forced into saying the same thing about the unbelieving spouse.

Thiselton doesn’t mention baptism, giving a kind of psychological explanation that I think amounts of saying that the children are part of a covenant of marriage, and this covenant marks them: ‘The aspects of dynamic action and “separateness” in ἅγια mean that even if only one parent is Christian the children will be marked by an element of shaping and “difference” from a wholly pagan environment.”

As to whether “your children” refers to children of all Christians or the specific marriages involving unbelievers (an issue on which the web page spends time), this isn’t really considered by either Calvin or Thiselton. Both certainly assume that children of Christians are holy whether both partners are Christian or only one is. I do agree with the link that Paul’s wording makes more sense if it’s referring to all children of Christians and not just those of the marriages in question.

I think I accept Thiselton’s exegesis. It’s close to Calvin’s with two exceptions:

* Calvin believes that the children’s holiness is a result of the marriage’s holiness. I think Paul is reasoning by analogy. But I’m not sure I agree with the link that this is a pressing issue. After all, even if it’s analogy, the children are holy because they’re children of Christians, meaning they come out of a Christian marriage, so there’s a lot of overlap between the two. (Perhaps the way you distinguish is to ask about children who are born into a single-parent household. I at least would argue that if their custodial parent is Christian the children are still holy, even though there’s no covenant of marriage involved, because the parent is part of the covenant community and the children are baptized into it. Calvin pretty clearly never thought about this case.)

* Calvin believes the children are holy in the sense of being exempted from original sin. Thiselton would say that they are marked by being born in a Christian household. I think that can reasonably be understood in covenantal terms. But saying that this exempts them from original sin is something I don’t find in Paul. Calvin argues by analogy with the covenant with Abraham, which he believes exempted Israel from original sin based on Rom 11:16. Rom 11:16 seems to be speaking of Israel, and certainly implies that they are all, even the unbelieving ones, holy in some sense. I would agree that they are set aside by God (which is what holy means) and part of the covenant. But that unbelieving ones are regenerate seems weird, and I don’t see it in Paul, unless Paul is actually claiming that every individual Jew will eventually be saved.

I agree with JM’s link up to the point near the end where he starts talking about infant baptism. I think my exegesis would be similar to Thiselton’s. And to JM’s link until that point.

The link seems to assume that the analogy between unbelieving spouse and child means that they get treated the same way in baptism. But I don’t believe that is the case. Both unbelieving spouse and child are part of a covenantal relationship that marks them as touched by the Gospel. But I would argue that they are different. Both are set aside, and thus Paul can call them holy. But young children of Christians should (if the parents are doing their job) grow up in the Church and participate in its worship. At some point in their lives they may stop, but at least for a while they are full members of the Christian community. That’s not the case for unbelieving adults. They're marked by God, but not in the same way. No analogy is perfect, and I think it’s pushing this one too far to say that if we baptize children of believers we would have to baptize unbelieving spouses.
 
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This is a good, succinct explanation.

This is a very good, succinct description of how covenant theology works for infant baptism. Where does the Scripture say we are still under the Old Testament Law and that it is applicable in this sense? Seems like convoluted reasoning.
 
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