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I'm bummed today.. :(

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Aww you made me smile.. life no matter what we do or where we live just drains you sometimes..

I can understand not wanting to go to work.. I wish I could help make your day brighter or something like that... we all need something more then the regular day to day..

One of my sons didn't want to go to school.. and yet I had to make him go.. :(
Have to think of something special to do for him or with him after school to cheer him up.. I think they had an excursion and he didn't go but they still have to attend and they would place him in another class room.. I don't remember seeing a note about it.. but you know kids.. they forget notes.. and then we parents get into trouble for it?? Schools love to heap it on us parents.. I guess they are having a bad day too sometimes LOL..

No wonder people get drunk and drugged up.. it blocks it out.. I don't drink hardly at all.. thankfully now I am older and more mature.. cough... cough.. ;) I can drink a few and get the buzz and stop.. but hardly do that.. though it is fun sometimes.. Yikes straying here..

What things help you when you feel that way??

Music helps me but I am at home so I can sing out loud ha.. and listen to it whenever.. at work it must be harder to help get yourself through the day.. What do you for a job.. sorry if you have already told me..
 
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Interesting peace. I never liked the taste of alohal so I don't drink. My GF does, so I'm always the designated driver. She is like you in that just drinks a little to get a buzz and then stops.

I do a couple of things at work. I have some freinds there I talk to so that helps. The other things I is I'm pretty good at changing the perspective I look at things from. So today waes a very physcail job. Lifting 66 lb boxes and taking off the waxed carboard that the frozen fish is wrapped in. So I just started thinking about how this was such a good workout for my arms. Just hope they recover before tomorrrow as its more the same tomorrow.

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Interesting peace. I never liked the taste of alohal so I don't drink. My GF does, so I'm always the designated driver. She is like you in that just drinks a little to get a buzz and then stops.

I do a couple of things at work. I have some freinds there I talk to so that helps. The other things I is I'm pretty good at changing the perspective I look at things from. So today waes a very physcail job. Lifting 66 lb boxes and taking off the waxed carboard that the frozen fish is wrapped in. So I just thatetd thinking about how this was such a good workout for my arms. Just hope they recover before tomorrrow as its more the same tomorrow.

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Yes. I try to do the same thing. Whenever I realize that my thoughts are negative I try to see things at a different angle and it helps a lot. Good strategy, DH! :)
 
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