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Father God we come before you on behalf of Elizabeth. She is seeking you, your wisdom and guidance. I pray that you will fill her with the certain knowledge of your love and clear her mind of the confusion and uncertainty, clear her heart from the sadness and loneliness and help her to see clearly during this time of heart break. Lord, your word tells us that you came to help the broken hearted and we ask this for your dear daughter. Father Gad we all understand that she is in pain and we ask for your Holy Spirit to intercede and minister to her in ways we may not even comprehend to comfort her during this time of sadness. Lord, let your Word light her path and guide each and every footstep. Lord, wrap your arms around her and help her to understand in a new way just how precious she is to you!!!

We ask these things in Jesus' name. Amen

Praying for you, never forget that you are a PRINCESS!!! A beloved daughter of the KIng of Kings!!!
 
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Actually God does give us more than we can take in ourselves. But in the same breath I say that He takes up our burdens. And your needs and hurts are very important to God. Jesus put himself on the cross for you, so know that He cares about your heart. Know that Jesus said the very hairs on your head are numbered, isn't your heart more important than that. SO God knows how important this is to you. This is no small request unworthy of His mighty attention.

I pray you will be comforted, guided, healed, given wisdom, and also that the Lords will be made clear to you. I ask these things in the holy name of Jesus, Amen.
 
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CopticGirl said:
So I'm here asking for your prayers. And I feel bad doing so. I know that others' needs are more important than what I'll ask for here...but I figured maybe if you had time you could mention my name in your prayers.

So anyone who reads my journal would know that my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me just about a month ago. And it's been so hard on me. I've been so tired and so lonely, so depressed and just so all together unhappy.

I know that everything happens for a reason, and I know that our Father has a plan for me. And to be honest, I just don't know what to do somedays.

More recently my exboyfriend has been telling me that he misses me and thinks he may have made a big mistake. As much as I miss him and as much as I want things to just go back to the way they were...I just don't know what is right. I have a feeling he's going to want to get back together, and I don't even know what I would say.

I just want to do whats right. I just want to be happy again. I just want to stop crying.

Neil was a good boyfriend. I was always happy with him---that is until he literally broke my heart one day without any warning.

I guess, what I'm asking is for your prayers that I know what's right and that God helps me bare this burden. My sister tells me that God would never give us a burden we can't bare. But all I know is I think about this situation on a daily basis and I am having a hard time accepting it all. And it's not that I'm one of those girls saying I can't live without my boyfriend. It has nothing to do with that. It has more to do with the uncertainty, sadness and loneliness. I just want God to lead me and take care of me.

Please, if you have time just pray for me. I just feel like I need some support, guidance and companionship.

Anyways...so that's my sob story.

God Bless,
Elizabeth


Dear God's Beloved Daughter of God,


Firstly, you means a lot to your Sweet Jesus...so despite "small" or "BIG" the prayers are, it means a lot to your Sweet Jesus.

What your sister said is true, as what your Jesus said,

"Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I WILL give you REST. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart (always available, approachable 24/7 for you), and you will find REST for your soul. For my Yoke is EASY and my BURDEN IS LIGHT." Matthew 11:28-30 (N.I.V)


Jesus's Beloved, I suggest that you chat(pray) with your Sweet Jesus about it, and let him guide your heart by the Protector HolySpirit in you.

I've knew of a few believers sisters in christ, who suffered a lot of hurts and pains as they "felt" like they can't let go of their relationship with their boyfriends, even when deep in their heart they knew it's not wise to carry on the relationship. Talk to Jesus about it...he has the answers for Precious you.:)



(READ MY ARTICLE - The Thoughts of Jesus Love), and other posts, and let me know what do you think about it and what do you think about Life, and I hope and pray that you may get inspiration out of it? Feel free to drop me a message or mail, anytime, of how you are doing. :)

http://www.christianforums.com/t1935002-thoughts-of-jesus-love-and.html#post17418446




Our LORD Bless and keep you and family...JESUS LOVES YOU! :wave:
 
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what seems to have happened here is that he has lost your trust and women will quickly lose interest in a man they do not trust,hence your guilty tears knowing he needs you but you in your heart knowing you dont really want him back because the damage has been done,i will pray that the merciful christ finds a solution for you both that both can stop dwelling on the hurt and pain and be released into a normal state of being alive..amen
 
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CopticGirl said:
So I'm here asking for your prayers. And I feel bad doing so. I know that others' needs are more important than what I'll ask for here...but I figured maybe if you had time you could mention my name in your prayers.

So anyone who reads my journal would know that my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me just about a month ago. And it's been so hard on me. I've been so tired and so lonely, so depressed and just so all together unhappy.

I know that everything happens for a reason, and I know that our Father has a plan for me. And to be honest, I just don't know what to do somedays.

More recently my exboyfriend has been telling me that he misses me and thinks he may have made a big mistake. As much as I miss him and as much as I want things to just go back to the way they were...I just don't know what is right. I have a feeling he's going to want to get back together, and I don't even know what I would say.

I just want to do whats right. I just want to be happy again. I just want to stop crying.

Neil was a good boyfriend. I was always happy with him---that is until he literally broke my heart one day without any warning.

I guess, what I'm asking is for your prayers that I know what's right and that God helps me bare this burden. My sister tells me that God would never give us a burden we can't bare. But all I know is I think about this situation on a daily basis and I am having a hard time accepting it all. And it's not that I'm one of those girls saying I can't live without my boyfriend. It has nothing to do with that. It has more to do with the uncertainty, sadness and loneliness. I just want God to lead me and take care of me.

Please, if you have time just pray for me. I just feel like I need some support, guidance and companionship.

Anyways...so that's my sob story.

God Bless,
Elizabeth
Read my journal entry "He loves me, He loves me..." And I will pray for you: Lord, as you have called us to love, you have also called us to forgive. Help us to live up to the standard you have set."
 
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Thank you all for your prayers. I truly do appreciate them. I am trying so hard to be strong and to listen to God and do what is right or accept what is His will. But sometimes when there are all these emotions involved it is so hard to see what God's will is. I therefore, with all my heart welcome your prayers and thank you for them.

I know that all will be okay, eventually. But it's just so hard for me to focus on that when I'm still feeling so hurt by it all.

Thank you again.

God Bless,
Elizabeth
 
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Elizabeth, I am praying that God would comfort you during this difficult time. I know it is hard. I have been in a very similar situation myself. But you are right, everything does happen for a reason. Just keep leaning on Jesus. He is our Rock. And remember that weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning!!! (Psalms 30:5)
 
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I lift your precious heart before His throne of grace and mercy. I ask Him to soothe the division in your mind and spirit over this matter with His glue of peace shed without explanations. May He pour it out in abundance and lead you gently to an oasis in His care for the kind of rest that can clear your being to hear from Him. He wishes so much for us to follow Him to the place best suited for us. We ALL are so stubborn in our fears of loneliness and worry. Me too. I am losing someone myself these days. It has been a slow and really painful exit and re-entrance and exit and stretching beyond my means so often. My heart, too, is sick with it. I pray these things to the Father for us both. A respite, a rest, a drawing aside, unto Jesus. May He minister healing and love in our hearts to restore our strength and give us clarity anew, for His glory. amen.
 
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Lord be with Liz and help her to seek your counsel and wisdom. Help her to follow your will and direction. That you will lead her to follow what you want and need her to do. Help her to make the right decisions and lead her not into temptation. Be with her and bless her. In thy name and will, amen.
 
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Thanks again...

I just feel like things are getting worse for me. :cry: I'm so grateful for anyone that mentions me in their prayers. I just feel so helpless and abandoned.

Please continue to pray for me. I'm going through one of the hardest times of my life. And the only comforter I have is God. So I just pray that I feel His presence.

God Bless,
Elizabeth
 
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A couple of weeks ago I wrote this poem to Jesus in one of my darkest moments when only He seemed to be there for me. I hope it comforts you to know I felt this alone too, like you feel now.​
GabrielleAngelo c.2005 said:
I KNOW love;
The motion of You; You in me.
Shape this forsaken hour, MOVE me.


Burning shields from inmate hearts;
Refine our love in mine.

Intimates share breath with You.

~~~~~~~ >

I almost always shield me;
Flames unfed,
No other to flesh them out.


Ablaze, armored, separated;
I incinerate ME!
Heat unspent destroys me, bows me low.
Ashes and dust….
Fallen below the vapid loves around me;
hollowed as they shrink away;
In need of ME!


Suppressed.
Repressed.
Oppressed in my own love; Our love.


Walled out,


shooed off,
and stifled,
A solitary ember.
~~~~~~~~~~ >
Enkindle.
~~~~~~~~~~ >


Branded shell, hot dagger, spilled it's prey;
bled out across a floor on any who walked by,
Barely aware that their feet were red;
No life from their parade.
Dulled by all You offer me as fellows;
Dulled by me alone.

~~~~~~~~ >


Collapsing at this gateway,
Drag me up; lift me crawling toward love’s altar.
Pallid beneath false armor;
Ashen, charred, I yield;
An unfit offering for You.
End it, torch the pyre!


White flames devour,
Daggered shield extinguished clamors to the ground;
Earth bows reverent.
Silent smoke sails skyward; …Flag of honor.


White flames burn clean.


As by bellows, a wind kicks up,
Breath quickens.
I linger…; drawing deeper,
fanning all hope of You;
Every moment, a gift bearing spark.


My senses flare wide.
An oasis fractures time,
Like a tide swell from a glass sea;
You crack the sky.


Wingbeats of angels thunder softly nearby,
their breeze rushing over my skin;


My heart sprawls out on dunes in Your sun,
Drumming rhythm.
My chest heaves free with Yours;
I drink Your scent,


I know Your name.


Slumber steals my tempered heart;
Sated with You, pounding tribute; wanting nothing.
Serenity rests beside You, heeding Your call.


Thank You for us;


for receiving me,


for giving You,


For wanting to.


Your breath alone quickens mine, kindred Wind;
.. My match, without end.
Stay my shield;
By Your door………

To rust.

<~~~~~~~~>
His heart must long sooo much for ours if we long this much for His as we are a dim reflection of His Love.​
 
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CopticGirl said:
...my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me just about a month ago. And it's been so hard on me. I've been so tired and so lonely, so depressed and just so all together unhappy.

More recently my exboyfriend has been telling me that he misses me and thinks he may have made a big mistake. As much as I miss him and as much as I want things to just go back to the way they were...I just don't know what is right. I have a feeling he's going to want to get back together, and I don't even know what I would say. Elizabeth

Elizabeth, God leads us often by our hearts. Is it safe to get back together? He wasn't hurting you or asking you to sin, was he? It is not a sin to keep loving another - in fact to return is exactly what we each have to do day by day for the rest of oyur loves when we are married. The glue of any relationship is returning and forgiving.

Lord, you have received us back, over and over again. Help us to recieve each other, to bring glory to your name and goodness into our lives. AMEN
 
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