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If one has a lifespan cap of 50-60 years, how would you live life differently

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Hello folks. Philosophy is a subject that I am not that good at, but it is still fascinating, especially when thinking of sci-fi or fiction ideas that try to stick to reality as much as possible.

So, here is the question: You are an alien species of the Vishar people living on a distant world named Vilcharia, and have similar personality traits to humans. The only difference between a Vishar and a human is your lifespan. Humans live 80 years on average, but you only live 55 years. How would you live your life differently? What cultural differences between humans and Visharians may be present?

My thoughts on if we only lived 55 years:
Some of my ideas would be that if Visharians live only 55 years, that means less emphasis would be placed on taking 4-8 years of college, and secondary education would max out at three to five years. Folks would graduate high school at age 15 instead of 18, and complete college by age 18-19.

Another idea is that Visharians place more emphasis on community and saving resources, due to a short lifespan. That means four Visharian homes could be arranged around a central courtyard just as monasteries on Earth are. Privacy still exists, but Visharians might have more community and a smaller government, as the community shares resources. Anyone who is lazy could get kicked out to non-communal homes. Assuming planet Vilcharia has grass and gardens, four families could share a lawnmower and yard tools, to save costs. Also, stores would be smaller, and may be placed in every neighborhood.

City parks on the planet could include a wall covered in a weatherproof screen so community members could draw public art for other Visharians to enjoy, while scenic nature parks could be extremely popular as Visharians want to live a healthy life to make it to age 60 or 65. If one does exceptionally well, one could make it to 70 years.

If one only lives 55 years on average, that means Visharians may work from age 18 to retirement at age 45, so the economy could be weaker, and less innovation happens, unless a technological breakthrough could happen due to more communal living. One breakthrough could be high speed transit, as one would want to get to places faster due to the limited amount of years in life. Trains could routinely travel at 125 mph (200 km/h) to get to other cities in a matter of minutes or hours. For getting to work, carpooling or public transit could work, assuming Visharian families choose to live in certain communal homes near their jobs.

So, what do you guys think? If we only lived 55 years, how would you live your life differently, and how would culture adapt to shorter lifetimes? For myself, I would spent more time praying to God, and less time being lazy and getting distracted by television or online forums, especially if the culture is more community oriented.

Co-living architecture on Earth:
 

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Probably what medieval people did. Humans only started to get longer life spans with increased technology.
Yeah, but in this hypothetical, the Vishar people live 55 years, but have current or more advanced tech compared to ours. Before the advanced tech, these Vishars folks only lived 30 years. So, with advanced tech, what would you do if you only lived 55 years.
 
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Yeah, but in this hypothetical, the Vishar people live 55 years, but have current or more advanced tech compared to ours. Before the advanced tech, these Vishars folks only lived 30 years. So, with advanced tech, what would you do if you only lived 55 years.
Get even more advanced tech. :cool:

Since I haven't lived to 55 yet, not sure. People can pass away at any time. 55 is just a median age, meaning some live longer, some shorter right?
 
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Get even more advanced tech. :cool:

Since I haven't lived to 55 yet, not sure. People can pass away at any time. 55 is just a median age, meaning some live longer, some shorter right?
Yeah. Very advanced tech, like faster-than-light travel by the 1950s. But for the purpose of this thought experiment, assume the tech is the same as ours.

The longest life a Vishar has ever lived is 87. 55 is the mean/median. Some die in the 40s, most in the 60s, and a few others in the 60s. Very rarely, some make it to the 70s and 80s.
 
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Yeah. Very advanced tech, like faster-than-light travel by the 1950s. But for the purpose of this thought experiment, assume the tech is the same as ours.

The longest life a Vishar has ever lived is 87. 55 is the mean/median. Some die in the 40s, most in the 60s, and a few others in the 60s. Very rarely, some make it to the 70s and 80s.
After about 70 or 80, don't most humans get disinterested in what they were doing before anyway?
 
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After about 70 or 80, don't most humans get disinterested in what they were doing before anyway?
Yeah, true. A lot of people get regrets of what they did in life. So, the Vishars might have regrets in life by age 40 or so. Mid-life crisis may happen at age 25-35 for a Vishar.
 
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Yeah, true. A lot of people get regrets of what they did in life. So, the Vishars might have regrets in life by age 40 or so. Mid-life crisis may happen at age 25-35 for a Vishar.
I read some time ago that some have been having that crisis earlier lately, I wonder if people aren't expecting to live so long?
 
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I read some time ago that some have been having that crisis earlier lately, I wonder if people aren't expecting to live so long?
Or, maybe mental health issues have gotten worse. Human lifespan has flattened at 80 years on average in the US.
 
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I likely would have got my S together twenty years ago
Same here, though probably 5 years ago. I struggled with some personal issues in the 2010s and early 2020s. Now, at age 25, I would be nearly 46% through my life if I was a Visharian man, as Visharian biology means for shorter lifespans. By the grace of God, I am a human and barring any accidents, 80 years of life seem reasonable for me to grow responsibly.

May I ask what stuff you struggled with 20 years ago? For me, it was being preyed upon by online creeps on a global pen-pal forum from 2015-2017, then not taking college seriously in 2018-2019, though the college was cliquey and kinda sucked.
 
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It is said you spend over 90,000 hours of work during an average lifetime.

If we lived only 50-55 years or so, would we focus less on work and more on relationships and family?
 
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Same here, though probably 5 years ago. I struggled with some personal issues in the 2010s and early 2020s. Now, at age 25, I would be nearly 46% through my life if I was a Visharian man, as Visharian biology means for shorter lifespans. By the grace of God, I am a human and barring any accidents, 80 years of life seem reasonable for me to grow responsibly.

May I ask what stuff you struggled with 20 years ago? For me, it was being preyed upon by online creeps on a global pen-pal forum from 2015-2017, then not taking college seriously in 2018-2019, though the college was cliquey and kinda sucked.
I loved being in college, but am not using my degree, and feel mostly betrayed by nearly all of my "friends" who I realized were never friends to begin with.

I am now a cashier and live with my parents because I have severe anxiety.

I made some questionable life choices, to say the least.

I'm only 29.
 
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Same here, though probably 5 years ago. I struggled with some personal issues in the 2010s and early 2020s. Now, at age 25, I would be nearly 46% through my life if I was a Visharian man, as Visharian biology means for shorter lifespans. By the grace of God, I am a human and barring any accidents, 80 years of life seem reasonable for me to grow responsibly.

May I ask what stuff you struggled with 20 years ago? For me, it was being preyed upon by online creeps on a global pen-pal forum from 2015-2017, then not taking college seriously in 2018-2019, though the college was cliquey and kinda sucked.
For me, even 30 years ago, I began to struggle with addiction and depression. Over the years I have battled these afflictions with more and less success. I am doing well now but I still have to deal with the physical issues that come along with addiction. Like I said, I'm free today but damage has been done to my body that I still have to deal with. That's why I wish I could have figured this out better 20-30 years ago. It would have saved me from a lot of consequences.
 
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I loved being in college, but am not using my degree, and feel mostly betrayed by nearly all of my "friends" who I realized were never friends to begin with.

I am now a cashier and live with my parents because I have severe anxiety.

I made some questionable life choices, to say the least.

I'm only 29.
Goes to show that this country needs free college, as not everyone uses their degree.

There is a lot of betrayal going on in this fallen world.
 
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It is said you spend over 90,000 hours of work during an average lifetime.

If we lived only 50-55 years or so, would we focus less on work and more on relationships and family?
Well, the Vishar people would focus more on family, and if they work, they mainly work for family businesses, and if in the tech sector, then for technology or aerospace companies, as the industry on Vilcharia is agrarian and aerospace related.

So, if we only lived 50 years, we would probably focus more on family.
 
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For me, even 30 years ago, I began to struggle with addiction and depression. Over the years I have battled these afflictions with more and less success. I am doing well now but I still have to deal with the physical issues that come along with addiction. Like I said, I'm free today but damage has been done to my body that I still have to deal with. That's why I wish I could have figured this out better 20-30 years ago. It would have saved me from a lot of consequences.
I pray that you stay free of these addictions. We all have struggles man. God understands, and He has forgiven you of your addictions.
 
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Goes to show that this country needs free college, as not everyone uses their degree.

There is a lot of betrayal going on in this fallen world.
I went to a private Catholic college, so it wasn’t going to be free. I already paid back my student loans.
 
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I pray that you stay free of these addictions. We all have struggles man. God understands, and He has forgiven you of your addictions.
I appreciate the prayers and that is probably the biggest component of recovery, giving up self-will in order to follow God's will and his will is that we take care of ourselves and our neighbors. That's why I don't hide or downplay my struggle. In an anonymous group one of the slogans is "you can't keep it unless you give it away." So I try to show people that recovery is possible if you are willing to work at it and throw away that self-destructive self-will. My uncle called it "the lizard brain." Following your base urges for pleasure in the short term while not considering the long term consequences.
 
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