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If I die in a state of mortal sin

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Yep
 
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If you are indead in mortal sin you will go to hell, and that is no matter to make light off and should be a reminder to all.

However the question of what quilfies as a mortal sin is a diffuclt one becuase of the complectiy of such matters. God is the only one who can truely read our hearts on such things. But be warn you can not fool God as you can your self and others.

Mercyfully God has seen fit to provide a method of resassuring us of his forgivness trhough the sacrmenet of reconelation (confesson).

Also don't forget to pray for perseverance after you seek forgivness. for only through God's graces will you over come habitail sin

 
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it depends... i can't see your heart, i can't see what God can see... but if you are intentionally choosing to do what you know is wrong and you are not trying to stop... then that's a pretty good indicator you're not trying to honor God, and i would be gravely concerned for your soul.

that said... i am a sinner in need of grace, and i mess up all the time.
 
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Im certainly not taking it light brother, thats why Im asking the question. It scares me very much.
 
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It's dependant on one's full knowlede that it's a mortal sin and whether they commit it with full consent of the will. (what they are doing might still be wrong, but they might not be aware of the gravity of it)

If it's something that has to do with an addiction... that can be a totally different story... and if it's something that a person is TRULY repentant for and makes a perfect act of contrition before seeing a priest (assuming they're catholic) then it can be forgiven.

There are fine lines with this... so don't be too quick to assume things.

I'm not sure if you're Catholic or not dave, and that makes difference too... depending on your education of these things, and your own life circumstances. (addictions being one)

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This is just freaking me out talking about it but thanks anyway.
 
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dangerousdave said:
Come on brother, don't you think your being a little harsh with me. I'm beginning to fill my nappy here.
I'm not trying to be harsh I just think the truth is just that its the Truth. I'm not by any stretch of the mind making light of the situation. I'm just stating the position of the Church. I will keep you in my Prayers. We are who we are, but we are called to be who we are not. May the peace of Christ be with you.
 
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dangerousdave said:
This is just freaking me out talking about it but thanks anyway.
Well... you did ask.

But there is no reason to be freaked out. Beg for God's mercy and forgiveness and try to rectify wrongs... (if this is a personal thing you are referring to)--and go from there. Ask God to teach you. It's a process.... for all of us.

Michelle
 
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RCC, I can appreciate your zealousness for truth, but, realistically, non of us comes to the understanding of the truth without being in sin first, sometimes mortal...and we all remain sinners everafter... So, in that case, grace shouldn't only come from God... it should come from us, too..and what you've been saying, though true, might sound a little condemning for someone struggling with sin.

Michelle
 
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dangerousdave said:
Glory be to the Most Holy Trinity. Help me Mary, don't let me fall.
Dave, If you are Catholic, go to confession. It is a wellspring of grace given to us by Christ. And continually pray without ceasing. I know where you are coming from. Overcoming temptations of the flesh is not easy. when you feel tempted think of Christ's sorrowfull passion and that usually does it for me. Pray, pray, pray and don't give up and once again if you are Catholic frequent confession it will help you.
 
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I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm a blunt person. And his question needed a blunt answer. Not some sugar coated junk that could cause him his immortal soul.
 
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dangerousdave said:
Listen, hey!! your all good people and I appreciate the truth. Its just scary thats all. I don't want to go to hell but I am as weak as ****. I really hope God can have mercy on this terrible sinner and believe me I have sinned.
St. Paul was the chief of sinners, and as weak as ****, according to a letter of his... and the only thing that saved him was his willingness to be the Lord's servant.

Prayers for you, dave, I am keeping you in thought too.

Michelle
 
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dangerousdave said:
Listen, hey!! your all good people and I appreciate the truth. Its just scary thats all. I don't want to go to hell but I am as weak as ****. I really hope God can have mercy on this terrible sinner and believe me I have sinned.
Dave make sure you read post #16. And may the peace of Christ, the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you, always.
 
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