i want ur advice

[samoo]

i am from Egypt i feel very upset i dont have many friends and i feel rejected
iam very sensitive i get angry so fast if anyone criticized me or said any bad comment about me please advise me

 

[lutherangerman]

You need to have more of the Holy Spirit in your life, and Jesus too of course. He and especially our friend the Holy Spirit is a source of patience for us. The bible says that to become patient is a fruit of the Spirit. Trust Him fully and you will become more resilient to what people say, because you know God isn't like people, doesn't have mood swings, doesn't scream or shout at you, doesn't stop loving you. I will pray for you now, God bless you!

 

[aiki]

i am from Egypt i feel very upset i dont have many friends and i feel rejected
iam very sensitive i get angry so fast if anyone criticized me or said any bad comment about me please advise me

Matthew 11:28-30
28 Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."

Hebrews 13:5-6
5...For He Himself has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you."
6 So we may boldly say: "The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?"

Proverbs 3:5-6
5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding;
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.

Philippians 4:6-8
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God;
7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy--meditate on these things.

Proverbs 29:22-23
22 An angry man stirs up strife, And a furious man abounds in transgression.
23 A man's pride will bring him low, But the humble in spirit will retain honor.

Selah.

 

[SoldierOfSoul]

"So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience" (Colossians 3:12)

If you have been saved by Christ Jesus, imitate Him, read His word and learn of Him, He must increase in your life and you (self) must decrease. It is a process, but it is a process that must be done.

 

[Pal Handy]

i am from Egypt i feel very upset i dont have many friends and i feel rejected
iam very sensitive i get angry so fast if anyone criticized me or said any bad comment about me please advise me

Take your concerns to the Lord in prayer.
Ask Jesus to be your best friend.
Ask Jesus to comfort you and to direct your path in this life.

Can you develop friends with Christians?
They are your brothers and sisters in Christ.

If you know that Jesus loves you, I mean really KNOW how
much He cares, perhaps you can brush aside others unkind remarks
and begin to be extravagant in your praise and acceptance of
yourself and others.
After all, God loves you and He is the most important person in the universe.

Tell those who are unkind to you how much Jesus loves them.
Tell them that if Jesus can love someone who they pick at and
find fault with, He can love them also.

Jesus loves you as if you are the only person in the universe.

That doesn't mean that Jesus only loves you alone but that
He loves you absolutely and He proved it by taking your place
on the cross and taking your sins upon Himself and becoming accursed
so that you can be blessed and so that you can have direct access to God your Father.

Develop your relationship with God in Christ and allow God to love you
in deeper ways, especially in the comfort He will give you when
you come to Him for advice, help and the love you need when others
are not so kind.

I know what I am talking about because I have been rejected myself and
have felt lonely and rejected. In fact I felt this way over the weekend and
so I went to a secluded and lonely spot and I poured my heart out to the Lord.
I began by telling Him I need His help and stating my problems and by the end I
was thanking Him and belssing Him as I felt His love and comfort pour over me and
I knew in that moment that He loves me and that He will order my footsteps and take me
where He wants me to go...I felt His peace and love and I wasn't lonely anymore...

Think of Jesus...

When things were going well He had plenty of friends but when things
were not going well, everyone abondoned Him.

We all in this life will feel the sting of abandonment and rejection but
God promises us that He will never leave or forsake us and that His
door is always open to us because we believe in Christ.

Begin to thank the Lord for what He has done for you.
Begin to thank Him for loving you when no one else would.
Begin to thank the Lord for opening your eyes to His truth.
Begin thanking the Lord for ETERNAL LIFE.

Your cup is more than half full, in fact it is running over with
excess that God has given you and instead you have a pity party.

Pity is a trap of the devil to get you to accuse the Lord and so the
quickest way out of self pity is to thank God for
all that He has done and to ask Him for forgiveness, help and guidance.

 

[paul1149]

samoo,

We love because He first loved us (1Jn 4). It sounds like you have been deprived of the love, acceptance and affirmation your soul needs, and when someone criticizes it's like touching an open wound. The solution is to continue to dwell in the love and acceptance of Christ, knowing that He has forgiven all your falling short, and accepts you just as you are. There, you will heal, and become less dependent on the affirmation of man. You will gain the wholeness and strength to move forward, secure in the knowledge of who you are in Christ.

Blessings.

 

[timf]

i am from Egypt i feel very upset i dont have many friends and i feel rejected
iam very sensitive i get angry so fast if anyone criticized me or said any bad comment about me please advise me

There are two worlds. The world most people live in can be described by the phrase "dog eat dog". This means that everyone is trying to get as much as they can for themselves and if anyone is friendly to you it is only because they are trying to steal from you. This is an unhappy world because the main driving force is selfishness.

The second world is a world of love where people think of others more than themselves. In this world we do not have to be afraid of others wanting to hurt us. We do not have to strike out to protect ourselves. This is the world God wants for us.

When God sent Jesus to pay the price for the sin of the world on the cross, He created a way for us to leave the world of selfishness and enter the world of love. When we trust in Jesus, we establish a connection with Him and He lives in us. This begins a process of transformation where we become less selfish and more like Jesus.

Unfortunately we Christians are often still attached to the world of selfishness and do not show the light and love of Jesus to those still held captive.

You can come to know Jesus and enter this second world where you do not have to be an guard against those who would hurt you. As Jesus heals your wounds, you grow to find that when people insult you, you understand their limitations and become sad rather than angry.