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I want to stop but I can't/don't know how

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I identify as bisexual and I have been struggling with this fact for a while. I'm at a point where I am constantly changing my sexuality daily. Meaning I put or say I'm straight and unlike bisexual or leave bisexual related groups. Than I feel bad and identify as bisexual again and join what I left. I also have a problem with posing and being sexual in pictures and when I chat with certain people. I know this is wrong but I keep at it because of the comments and attention I get from it. I delete accounts than make another one or activate or deactivate my second Facebook account associated with that activity. I want to live a life for God but I can't if I continue to do these things. I think part of my struggle has to do with my borderline personality disorder. Currently I identify as bisexual. I'm not sure what I can do. Any suggestions or advice will be helpful.
 

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It sounds like you're having a tough time. BPD could definitely be an impact for you.

Have you considered Christian counseling? I've found counseling to be a great resource, and having a Christian counselor has helped in more ways than one.

Have you considered finding an accountability person who you could contact on a regular basis to help you stay accountable to help in managing the thoughts and behaviors of bisexuality?

Those are a couple things I would consider.
 
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