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It's my first time on this side and I would appeiciate any help anyone can give to interpret my dream.
There were 2 parts to this dream:

1) We were in a church about to announce our engagements to friends and family and for some reason I put her ring in my mouth to clean it and I was swirling it around, I then took it too the toilet to put it under the dryer. The ring is made up of 4 marquise diondaand 4 small round stones to make up a flower shape, her favorite featurevare the marquise stones. Anyhow, while I was drying the ring one of the marquise diamonds fell out and shattered on the floor and while I was panicking and picking up the pieces one of the diamond splinters pricked me and it bled a little. When I built up the courage to show her, one of the little stones fell out too but this one stayed in tact and didn't smash but couldn't be put back. When I showed her she was shocked and upset because she knew that when she announced it all her friends and family were going to want to see it and there were stones missing. I remember feeling annoyed and very nervous of people saying things such as the ring was cheap. The only colours that stood out in this dream was yellow, the toilet was painted yellow and there seemed to be a yellow glow everywhere.

The second part to the dream we seemed to be dolphins please note the end of this dream was a little explicit.

We were both in the crystal clear very blue ocean with 4 baby dolphins. They were all playing and swimming around until one got killed by another dolphin who grabbed the baby dolphin in its mouth and crushed it tight till it was dead, the feelings in this dream were very strange because it seemed we didnt really care and we all swam back home. While we were in a little corner near rocks the second dolphin decided to swim off into the blue and the feeling was as if we knew it would never come back and neither of us seemed bothered. At this point we had 2 dolphins left and I was very happy, I was laying on my fiancee dolphin and for some reason I then leaned in and began to suck one of her breasts and she started laughing and I was smiling and we decided to make more then I woke up. We just seemed very happy and not bothered by either dolphin straying or being killed. The colour was generally blue, dark sea blue.

Significant Life Events: I have two children with my previous partner and I am now currently engaged to my fiancee and we are looking to marry next year. My previous partner has given me an ultimatum, I either look after both of my kids with her or if I get married then I don't see either of them. My fiancee loves my Two kids but she doesn't know about this ultimatum, I have prayed about a decision and asked god for a dream to tell me what to do.
 

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I am not sure what to make of the dreams but I will share a few points that stood out to me.

In the dream you said:

Anyhow, while I was drying the ring one of the marquise diamonds fell out and shattered on the floor and while I was panicking and picking up the pieces one of the diamond splinters pricked me and it bled a little.

This could be suggesting that something you do (maybe to try to fix things) could end up hurting you a little. The prick probably represents a small hurt to your self.

Then I believe the following are contrasting emotions, representing two possible paths:

Either your children would have to be separated from you, by accident or by their choice.

...very strange because it seemed we didnt really care and we all swam back home... the feeling was as if we knew it would never come back and neither of us seemed bothered

OR

Your children would go with you and you be very happy, and still enjoy the married life.

At this point we had 2 dolphins left and I was very happy

I believe you have a choice to make, but God is suggesting you should keep the kids and you will both be very happy. A point to consider is by not caring for the kids, they may end up in some form of hurt, even if it is only emotional.
 
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Interesting dream. I don't think I can interpret dreams at all. But what is really interesting is the number 4 in your dream, and the diamond shattering. Diamonds are not supposed to shatter at all, so that may be something significant.

As for the number 4, that is a spiritually significant number.
 
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This is a warning dream. Don't forfeit your family for your fiancé.

You put the ring in your mouth which symbolizes justifying your marriage. One diamond fell and shattered under the dryer. That is a shattered relationship under heat. When you are done trying to justify your marriage you will lose your child. I think the second dream shows that not only is the relationship shattered but your child will leave their faith.

The second child will leave you because of your fiancé but might still be intact as a person.

The yellow represents how precious children are. If you want to do what is right in God's eyes you will not leave your children no matter the cost. You will be left with a sorry marriage where you are like a child to your fiancé.

The second dream represents your walk in the Spirit. You, your fiancé and your potential new children won't leave their faith. But you are not a good leader. Your ex wife will swear and curse you in the presence of your children and your first child will abandon their faith because of your sore leadership. The second child will leave you not because of her mother but because of how pitiful you are. Your fiancé may not be a bad person. But she is just going to laugh it off. Dolphins are actually violent animals. Please do not follow through with getting married. Your children are more precious than that.
 
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I did not want to tell you that. But there is good news. First of all everyone has dreams that are meant for correcting or warning. Most people don't know it. I had one last night. I need to be a better father and leader for my 2 sons. Here's the good news. God is speaking to you, and he wants you to be a good leader. Despite your earlier lack of insight your children aren't lost yet! God gave you wisdom to seek His advice
 
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This seems to make sense. I actually miss read what the first poster said the ultimatum was, I thought they said the ultimatum was the kids had to go with you, so I miss interpreted it.

There is definitely some hurt that will come to the kids if there is a separation from them.
 
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Thank you everyone.

I was never married to the mother of my children and we have been separated for a long time...In that process of time I became a Christian and met my fiancee who is in Christ, my ex partner isn't.

Hi,

It should be legally impossible for your previous partner to keep you from the kids. I would be seeking some form of legal advise if you can't resolve the issue with your previous partner.
 
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Hi I had a thought come to me about this and this is what I wonder. Again I am not saying it is correct just a possibility.


The first dream was at your announcement. Note the stones are in 4's. Which occurs in your second dream. Representing children.



Notice this happens shortly after your announcement. (you are drying the ring). I wonder maybe when your kids (the stones) hear of the engadgment, your ex's ultimatum will effect their emotions in some way. Maybe they will blame you. And there may be a seperation for a time, or some other loss which will hurt you slightly.

When I showed her she was shocked and upset because she knew that when she announced it all her friends and family were going to want to see it and there were stones missing.

Your partner may be shocked by the fact that she can not show your current kids to her family and friends.

I remember feeling annoyed and very nervous of people saying things such as the ring was cheap. The only colours that stood out in this dream was yellow, the toilet was painted yellow and there seemed to be a yellow glow everywhere.

You will probably have people accuse you, and say that the ring wedding is cheap, of no value, wrong. And it will make you nervous.

But I believe the second dream you had is a counter to this. Showing if you marry you will enjoy it.

I also wonder, i.e. don't know. The fact that there are 4 dolphins, gems of different types. May, just may specify, two path ways, for your two children. What will happen, a temporary seperation. Then God's will a restoration, the two return and go with you.
 
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Thanks FutureAndAHope, This interpretation really made me think. I am going to take some time to process what it is you are saying. I really feel like I need to get to the bottom of this dream as I have had it 3 times since I have posted this. So any further help would be much appriciated.

Thanks again to everyone else also
 
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