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YellowSapphire

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What about a shock collar for the dog? Dog barks, dog gets shocked, dog mysteriously stops barking. They have them at petsmart for around 50 bucks.

Pets, huh? Can't live with them... too cute to kill them.
 
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Entertaining_Angels

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I did go to petsmart for the shock collar. The problem is our dog has very, very thin fur. Seriously, it gets below 70 and that dog will start shivering everytime you look at him. The guy at the store said it might hurt him a little and I couldn't do that.

Add to that the fact that he managed to get the house 'skunked' last week and that dog is this close to becoming bbq.
 
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First of all.. *hugs*... sounds like you have a rotten situation here. I think the kennel idea is a good one. That way the cats could be upstairs and not in the basement. Continue to talk to your husband. Even if its about nothing, communication is so important that if you shut each other out you won't be able to work on any problems. Ask you husband his advice. Sometimes men like to be "fixers" and maybe getting him involved would help. I hate to think you will sleep in seperate bedrooms because of your pets. Men can become very attached to pets or tools even when they feel insecure or unsure of themselves. oops, sorry I didnt mean to pry or say anthing out of line.
Well, I'll stew on this a little more and think up some more ideas...
Good luck to you !!
 
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Hi sorry to hear about your cat, mine is quite the pain too. He likes to pee on our dirty laundry. I used to work at an animal hospital and I hope I can help in this situation. I think your husbands cat has a seperation anxiety problem. unfortunately cats are very hard to train after they have decided they like to behave a certain way. I used to have a cat that would urinate on my boyfriend while he was sleeping. lol. It's funny now, but was extremely frustrating while it was happening. My suggestion is to get an extra litter box, with 2 cats you should have 3 or 4 boxes.The only question I have is do the cats get along? Is your husbands cat hiding from the other cat during the day, and doesn't fell comfortable coming out for attention until the other cat is curled up elsewhere? I've had alot of cats with behavior problems, it's very, very, irritating so I know how you feel. I would suggest giving her her own feeding area as well as designate boxes, you can do this by continually putting the proper cat in the proper box and they will associate it as their's. Good luck and feel free to pm me if you have additional questions I'd be happy to try and help. jlwmomof4
 
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