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hisbloodformysins

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I am having turmoil in my soul. I've prayed about it- hope this brings some resolution. First of all, I have been struggling with negative thoughts about my marriage. I know this sounds crazy, but I honestly feel bad about myself for staying in this marriage. My mind tells me I'm crazy, why stay in a loveless marriage with a man I don't love. I feel like I do it because I'm weak. Because I'm afraid of getting out of this comfort zone. And I have prayed that God will reassure me that it's his will, because if you want to know the truth, even though the bible says God hates divorce, I seriously have doubts about this. I need prayers, wisdom, help- because I'm tired of this turmoil inside. Part of me says- just get a divorce- but I don't because of the fear and discomfort that goes along with it. Listen, I really do know what the bible says about divorce, yet my feelings are swayed by it- nor will logical "well, this is what the bible says so...." will help either. I need a better, more reasonable reason why- to put my soul at ease. Because I feel like I'm putting all this effort into something that God can make good- in his time, but I don't even want this marriage, yet I'm making all kinds of effort to keep it good. I need help.
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