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JojotheBeloved

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It doesn't matter who says it first... and you should say it only when you are sure that you feel it and are willing to commit to it. When I say commit to it, I'm not saying you need to commit for the rest of your life to that person or anything. But you should be able to recognize that love is not only a feeling but also a choice. So you commit to a choice to love, even when it's not a fluffy feeling. Be honest.
 
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