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Hey - when they get chubby enough, I could totally hang out with them so that I don't get stuck talking to the wingman.YOU were the one pulling things out of context. You quoted Christ forgiving those that were killing him when the Father would not let the cup pass, and you equated that to Alex venting about some rude girls and making a joke about giving them burgers.
Anyways, this whole thing is silly.
Alex, I thought the burger joke was downright hilarious. make sure you supersize their fries.... to supersize their thighs!
Coach
Very true. I like it when someone points out another perspective that normally is not seen.I agree with what most people have said - the girls' laughing was rude. However, how do you know they were laughing AT your friend? Are you sure they were laughing at him cos they rejected him, or could there have been more to it? From what I've seen, girls like to be able to share an experience with other girls (solidarity and all that...). Quite possibly, the "group laugh" was their reaction to being asked by "Austin" (a nice, upfront guy), in order to hide their nervousness at being asked, or their shame at turning him down. Be careful before you condemn - there's always more than one side to the story.
JMHO
I know...luckily Austin didn't saw them laughing but I was gritting my teeth so hard that my gums started to bleed
I agree with what most people have said - the girls' laughing was rude. However, how do you know they were laughing AT your friend? Are you sure they were laughing at him cos they rejected him, or could there have been more to it? From what I've seen, girls like to be able to share an experience with other girls (solidarity and all that...). Quite possibly, the "group laugh" was their reaction to being asked by "Austin" (a nice, upfront guy), in order to hide their nervousness at being asked, or their shame at turning him down. Be careful before you condemn - there's always more than one side to the story.
JMHO
I was also wondering the same thing? Maybe they weren't laughing, AT your friend, per say......how old were they? You called them "ladies".....were they older than you guys?
Maybe the "ladies" felt very flattered, they were asked to dance by a younger guy, because it's never happened to them before?
It could be a MILLION different reasons they were laughing other than just your friend asking them to dance? Another reason, maybe one of them was just in the middle of a funny story or joke when they got interrupted?
I completely agree that they were rude and insensitive.I have no problem if they didn't want to dance with the guy. The issue is the way in which they turned him down. From what I can see, they felt he just wasn't good enough to be worthy of their time. Pretty shallow.
And no, I am not a big Drew B-more fan. I just don't quite get the appeal. She was great in ET, though.
Coach
Alex, I thought the burger joke was downright hilarious. make sure you supersize their fries.... to supersize their thighs!
Coach
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