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So I'm a virgin guy but I have this kind of problem. I messed with a guy about 3 or 4 weeks ago and all we did was make out and he gave me blow kind of but I made him stop because I was uncomfortable and this was just a experiment type thing. I knew I didn't want to go far but I wanted to end this curiousity for the same sex, that I had. (THIS IS REALLY EMBRASSING TO TALK ABOUT) And all I did was give him a hand job. Well after that happend all I stopped masterbating and haven't really done anything. WEll all of sudden my gentials have this pain in them. Its like some body is pulling on them but its not that painful. It feels really weird and it kind of hurts. Anywayz I don't know why this is going on. The guy I was with has a "his share" in sexual partners and what we did wasn't much of anything. DOES ANYONE KNOW WHATS GOING ON? Should I even worry about it.........I'm about to go to ask my mom to go to take me to the hosptial to see whats going on. Or is just something that happens to everyone. Anyones I'm over the whole "gay" thing after this but yeah.........help if you can!
 

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mylittlelambs said:
SOunds like you should go to the DR. Probably a STD.


DEFINITELY!! Doctors had heard everything, so there is nothing to be embarassed about. It will put your mind at ease too, especially if we are talking about pain anywheres.
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Probably mate, yes see your doc, although at your age it could just be a puberty problem which won't last long. Get it checked just in case.

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The time frame is kind of important. I'm not an expert in this sort of thing, but I do know that if you masterbated a lot, and suddenly stopped, it COULD be that that is the cause of the pain. If that's it it should go away pretty soon...

It sounds like this is a very recent thing, though you didn't mention any timeframe. If it was just a week ago, there's very little (can I say no chance?) that it's an STD. Especially since the pain is in your testicles. You can certainly catch STDs from oral sex but you're just not going to become symptomatic that fast.

I do believe that it'll go away in a day or so, and that it's nothing to worry about. However, I can tell it's really bothering you, and if you're touching your testicles frequently now, you could actually be CAUSING the pain to continue (though you're not going to do damage).

Again, I'm no expert, and I don't have much to go on. There's no shame in seeing a doctor, but it might be hard on your own at your age.

Pray, trust in the Lord, and try to distract yourself for a while. See if it goes away on its own. Oh, and remember that unprotected oral sex is just as dangerous as any other type of sex! From a Christian standpoint, I'd advise you to stay away from it altogether, but ESPECIALLY don't have sex -- oral or otherwise -- without protection or you're very likely to get STDs at some point.
 
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Chances are... the pain was produced by your mind. I remember one time a couple of years ago when I confessed to this one girl friend of mine that I had fantasized about her sexually ... I renounced masturbation and became incredibly upset over the entire situation, and soon enough I had achieved a pain in my epididymis (sperm tubes) that caused doctors to think I had an infection! Well, after two months' worth of antibiotics, I realized that it might not be an infection, but rather my own mind. I caused it to myself. Over the next 3-4 months, the pain slowly vanished, and today, there's no trace of it.

Strange, isn't it?
 
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