I Got a Psychologist!!!

[NeedingMercy]

I saw my new psychologist for the first time today. It was a basic introductory visit, so we didn't go too in depth.

He agreed that most of what I need is to learn some new coping skills.

The only problem that I had with him was a statement regarding my attractions to other guys (yes h*mos*xuality). He felt that it was "almost impossible" to get rid of these attractions and that the most we could hope for was to "minimize and compartmentalize" these attractions. But he did respect my belief on them and said that he would help me with them. Thankfully, as I've been involved in a ministry that works in this area, it's not a major area that I need work in right now.

So, I'm going to start seeing him every other week for now. That's the correct amount for right now. I'm not sure that I could handle anything more intense.

Anyhow, I wanted to post an update.

Godbless All!
Ed

 

[madison1101]

Do not worry too much about your therapist's attitude about homosexuality. My therapist respects my beliefs about pornography. I struggle with it constantly, and he agrees with me that while he sees nothing wrong with it pathologically, it causes me shame, and I need to avoid shame producing behaviors.

God bless your new relationship with this therapist. I have an accountability friend who prays for my therapist and I when I go to therapy. I also share everything with her and she helps me process what I have learned in therapy. She is a believer who has guided me in my faith so much as I have recovered from BPD.

Good luck,
trish