(((((Melinda))))) and a BIG BIG welcome to CF, I thank you so much for your advice my dear sweet loving sister.
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(((((Melinda))))) and a BIG BIG welcome to CF, I thank you so much for your advice my dear sweet loving sister.First of all let me say that you are not worthless. The Bible tells you that you are fearfully and wonderfully made...meaning God took his time to make you and make you great. You are not worthless because God the Father made you.
I know you may feel alone, but God is always there. He will never leave you. Pray and ask him for strength, not death. Go and find a good loving church. You know, sometimes fellow Christians and church family will be more loyal than biological family.
I will certainly pray for you and remember, to trust God. Things will get better!
...I am in the way here on this earth. I hate me. I have no family (they disowned me about 3 years ago), I have social phobia and I can't keep male friends. I really don't want to be here, I have been begging God to allow me to go home cause I feel that I am so worthless. As you can see in my sig the only male who cares for me is my guardian angel and I am 38 years old too.
I have always had a low selfesteme I was never taught the right way to cope and my mother was so into looks is everything and my father told me that I was boring a lot of times that I need to become more interesting.
I blame me for everything especially when people leave me out or gang up on me. I think it is me me me me all the time.
I hate me.
I just wanted to get my feelings out about my self esteme., thanks for listening.
...I am in the way here on this earth. I hate me. I have no family (they disowned me about 3 years ago), I have social phobia and I can't keep male friends. I really don't want to be here, I have been begging God to allow me to go home cause I feel that I am so worthless. As you can see in my sig the only male who cares for me is my guardian angel and I am 38 years old too.
I have always had a low selfesteme I was never taught the right way to cope and my mother was so into looks is everything and my father told me that I was boring a lot of times that I need to become more interesting.
I blame me for everything especially when people leave me out or gang up on me. I think it is me me me me all the time.
I hate me.
I just wanted to get my feelings out about my self esteme., thanks for listening.
Dear Flower, you are more important than you realise. I am sending you loving thoughts. Love, xTx
MY dear sweet loving brother. It should be ME not you dying of cancer. I feel that God is being unfair. You have a wonderful place in this world, I WISH I could take your place so badly. I am so teared up to hear that you are dying. Thank you for your kind words. Learning to love myself is a lot harder than it sounds, when you had no family who showed how to love one self cause they didn't love themseves. THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVING WORDS, YOU ARE A HUGE BLESSING dear brother REALLY you are. ((((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))))) I will miss you so much, who knows maybe there will be a maricle and God will let me take your place. I am so very saddened at this news.Sister in Christ you are so hard on yourself but you do so much to help others. Stop putting yourself down or I will come back to haunt you. I am dying of cancer so the Lord is using me to preach his gospel now. You want to know the complete and absolute gospel message? It is to learn to be compassionate not just with others but with yourself. Too simple? Not intellectual enough for you? I wrestle with God day and night (Jacob's ladder). It brings tears to my eyes that at my last moment of life I truly understand. I will always love you because love is eternal. I hope this does not make you cry but you have a very special place in heaven. I will be glad to see you there. I am just the janitor here. I am everyone's servant.
Thank you dear brother.
Thank you so much my dear sweet loving brother. ((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))) I will enable my PM's so we can talk.You are an angel, aflower4God, never forget that. You are beautiful and loved. We all love you here. Please don't feel bad about yourself. You said you haven't learned to love yourself? Its easy. Let it go. Let all your hurts go. The people who hurt you didn't know any better, and if they did, you are better off without them. You are loved by God. Don't let yourself be consumed by so many worries. Just let it go. You are a bright, beautiful, amazing lady. I want to build up your confidence so badly. You are a precious child of God, you know that? God loves you!! Rejoice in that! You may not feel that love, but if you would quiet yourself like a child and just let all these worrying thoughts flow by...God would reach your heart. He loves you and is going to take good care of you. DON'T WORRY!
I wanted to talk to you in private, but you disabled your PM's.
Awe thank you so much my dear sweet loving sister. You are so very sweet as well, you like a mother hen on here even though you are younger than me, but you and Sister Criada are always so kind and loving to everyone. Very fair and understanding as well. That is awesome.Flower, you have got to be one of the kindest and gentlest people I have met on this forum. Your heart is so sincere and you really love the Lord as well as others. I really mean that. I am blessed to call you my sister in Christ and my friend.
I am praying for you!
Hehe awww thanks sis. Love you!
BIG THANK YOU and a BIG HUGS to you dear brother.Praying for you, flower!
...I am in the way here on this earth. I hate me. I have no family (they disowned me about 3 years ago), I have social phobia and I can't keep male friends. I really don't want to be here, I have been begging God to allow me to go home cause I feel that I am so worthless. As you can see in my sig the only male who cares for me is my guardian angel and I am 38 years old too.
I have always had a low selfesteme I was never taught the right way to cope and my mother was so into looks is everything and my father told me that I was boring a lot of times that I need to become more interesting.
I blame me for everything especially when people leave me out or gang up on me. I think it is me me me me all the time.
I hate me.
I just wanted to get my feelings out about my self esteme., thanks for listening.
Flower does not come here any more but it is nice of you guys to post to her just in case she would come back. God bless you all.
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